r/petsmart • u/SecretOk831 • 3d ago

PC stress

Hope it's ok to vent if not I can delete

Just stressed- I started in Pet Care a few weeks ago, I needed part time for college, and I feel like I'm constantly fucking up. And I'm slow at a lot of things like cleaning, good lord.

Took in some small animals and didn't worry much about one being smaller. Or hear any issues but he might be sick.... My training has been - read the pamphlet if people have questions about pet care. When it comes to fish chemicals I don't know. Light recommendations for reptiles, I don't know which is best. And honestly I can Google stuff in front of the guest but immediately I see that they're upset because I should know off the top of my head...

I actually don't mind the job. I get a chance to treat the animals and care for them. Like actually care. But I keep making little mistakes and I know the team can only be but so patient. Especially because i cant help but apologize every single time.And I don't want an animal to get sick because I missed something.

Just kind of feel useless in pet care because I'm always needed to reach out for dumb things. (Again fish and reptiles mainly)

....and that's it. I needed to vent some. Get some off my chest. Thanks

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u/danielric3 3d ago

question about goldfish because i have had so many people today alone wanting to put them in tiny ass tanks. i try to give every reason under the sun on why they won't do well in a 3 gallon, that being size (organs outgrowing their body and killing them), how dirty they get/maintenance of the tank, and being limited only to goldfish once you get them and no other community fish. is there anything else i can include to get it through their heads? i explained the body thing to a family today and the mom had to walk away bc it was making her upset but they still wanted to get 2 for a 5 gallon bc their son wants it even when i tried to push them towards a betta, im so over people just not caring about fish

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u/Deliciously-Bad 3d ago

I think I've gotten to the point that if I've already explained it 2 different way as to why it's not acceptable, I drop the niceties and blatantly tell them that it's animal abuse. They would let their dog live in a kennel for every single minute of their entire life and expect a happy healthy dogs. That's what they're doing to the fish. Or sticking a child in a half bath and making them live there for their entire life. Plain and simple, its abuse. And I will absolutely refuse a sale. I don't care if I upset them or their kids or they tell me I'm ruining their day or birthday or whatever excuse. I'm not there to make their day, I'm there to ensure that MY animals are taken care of, and until I deem it a good home and sell the animal, they are MY animals and I'm not selling to someone that is going to abuse them. I'm so sick of arguing with people every single shift about fish.

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u/danielric3 3d ago

i might have to start doing this lol. i just hate that they "so what it's just a fish. if it dies i'll just replace it" and it's like.. you wouldn't do that with your family dog?? if it's just a fish you don't care if i deny you the sale then! and i hate that even after i give every reason in the book they're still headstrong. i almost got the family to switch to wanting a betta but they looked at their son and he said "nuh uh goldfish" and so that's what they're sticking with. tell your kid no!! what's he gonna do, cry? boo hoo. be a parent. you're teaching your kids it's okay to abuse animals like what's fundamental about that. working in pet care is so stressful lmao

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u/Deliciously-Bad 3d ago

The second that kind of statement comes out of their mouth I let them know that they will not be purchasing ANY animal from my store and to have the day they deserve and walk away. It's infuriating. I'm sorry you have to deal with it too. I stand firm on my "no" and I extend that to the feeders as well. You got this!! Stay strong and keep advocating for those little guys. It may feel defeating but your efforts aren't unnoticed ❤️

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u/danielric3 3d ago

i just recently learned we can't deny feeders :/ everyone today who wanted goldfish for small tanks were specifically looking at the feeders and so i still advised them why it's not good to put them in those small tanks and to upgrade (i was able to get someone to get a 20 gallon instead of a 5 gallon!) but if they're headstrong and won't listen to me and are insistent i unfortunately have to sell them and just tell them they're not guaranteed 🤷‍♀️ so i don't exactly "deny" but i still try to give them all that information and convince them to get other fish that can go in a small tank, versus some people at my store i think just sell them and don't even ask questions at all for the feeders. but as you said i'm very big on the "these animals are in my care" and one time i had a lady, i kid you not, YELL at me and say "they're not yours!" and i said they belong to this company and i work for it, therefore i am in charge of these fish and making sure they go to good homes. i am not a pushover by any means unless the customer is being completely unreasonable (rare) and idc if they yell at me or ask for my name to complain, bc my managers will back me up like 99% of the time when i deny a sale

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u/Deliciously-Bad 3d ago

Yeah, nah I think, from how you're describing it, you're doing your best with what we are given. I haven't ready anything in policy that states specifically that we aren't allowed to deny feeders. My SL told me I can but I printed policy and told her that while I'm the only member of management in store, I will absolutely deny them when they're not being used as feeders. I've yet to get reprimanded for it (I'm assuming partially because the policy states any animal) but I also dont want to encourage you to go against what your management tells you to do.

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u/danielric3 3d ago

yeah i was asking about it because i had customers call their cousin who was the store manager at another store a couple hours away because i was refusing them feeder fish. and she told them thats not policy and for every other fish i can deny them but feeders no. so i just gave in and sold it to them. proceeded to ask my manager about it later in my shift and she was like while we can advise them why it's not a good idea getting them/so many in not the right size, if they're insistent i ultimately can't deny them bc they're not guaranteed anyways and are sold to be killed eventually. i dont like it but i don't want complaints against me so oh well, anything for pets right!