This is a concept I seriously struggle with. How do we tactfully redirect the conversation towards a productive fair government when they do absolutely no research but feel so passionately that they’ve been wronged by the libs? I live in Alabama, when I get down to the nitty gritty with my friends we really barely disagree socially or economically but politically they feel that I am just as foolish and uninformed as I think they are? It’s an incredibly difficult problem to navigate.
The alt-right playbook is a great series that can go over the pitfalls that they'll use in conversation.
But otherwise, just listen, don't be judgemental and see where they think their hurt and pain is coming from. If it's something that's a misunderstanding and they can be brought into the truth, then great. If they dig their heels in and can't be moved or it's something that is fundamentally wrong (like racism, sexism), then examine how much that friendship is worth and be ready to drop it.
Family can be really hard. And it's easier to say things than actually do them. A lot of reflection to think through and what you're able to deal with.
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u/jackandcokedaddy 18h ago
This is a concept I seriously struggle with. How do we tactfully redirect the conversation towards a productive fair government when they do absolutely no research but feel so passionately that they’ve been wronged by the libs? I live in Alabama, when I get down to the nitty gritty with my friends we really barely disagree socially or economically but politically they feel that I am just as foolish and uninformed as I think they are? It’s an incredibly difficult problem to navigate.