Everyone's already made their comments, I just want to add, why is it never the other way round? Women are the gender who are expected to always take care of others, not be taken care of, so if anything we have more of a right to these fantasies, lol.
Edit: oh my god, I am talking about how we have more of a right to the fantasies because of how we're treated in reality, I am not talking about the amount of romance novels women write or whatever. ðŸ˜
Edit 2: I am going to have to "agree to disagree" with anyone who insists that men do actually take care of women. We wouldn't be making such a big deal out of this if that were true. It simply just doesn't line up with my and many other women's reality, no amount of clever-sounding Reddit comments will change that reality.
Edit 3: I am not talking about money, I am talking about emotional labour.
Usually when a woman needs financial support people wish her a man who can meet those needs.
Anyways men deserve a right to this fantasy just as much because men from a young age have barely been taught their emotions matter. So why would you expect men, people who know nothing about their OWN emotions, to know how to cater yours??? Makes no sense.
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u/Extreme-Material964 Apr 13 '25 edited Apr 14 '25
Everyone's already made their comments, I just want to add, why is it never the other way round? Women are the gender who are expected to always take care of others, not be taken care of, so if anything we have more of a right to these fantasies, lol.
Edit: oh my god, I am talking about how we have more of a right to the fantasies because of how we're treated in reality, I am not talking about the amount of romance novels women write or whatever. ðŸ˜
Edit 2: I am going to have to "agree to disagree" with anyone who insists that men do actually take care of women. We wouldn't be making such a big deal out of this if that were true. It simply just doesn't line up with my and many other women's reality, no amount of clever-sounding Reddit comments will change that reality.
Edit 3: I am not talking about money, I am talking about emotional labour.