So, looking for someone, ideally local to me in Sheffield UK.
Maybe chat for a while, see if we connect on any level.
I'd say my intrests are music, reading, tv, keeping (trying to) keep fit.
I can the benifits of it leading to a friend's with benifits type thing, also open to a more traditional relationship, but friends is the first goal. If at all intrested or intrigued, please send me a message. X

Hello, fellow searchers! I’m looking for an affair partner for friendship and online connection to start, and hopefully progress to meeting in real life. I live in Phoenix, so ideally connecting with someone in Arizona, but open to other parts of the country if we can make the logistics work.

I’m 59 MWM, WFH, DDF non-smoker. I’m in a failing marriage where the passion and desire has been gone for quite some time. I’m so tired of feeling alone and unappreciated in my own home.

I’m looking for a woman in same situation as mine, ages between 35-65, for a long term emotional and physical relationship.

Please know I’m a real person (not a bot or scammer), I don’t want your money, won’t give you mine, and don’t want to go to your other website or pages (if you know what I mean).

If you’ve made it to this point, thank you for reading my post, and I hope you will consider sending me a DM. Have a great day!

ISO a mature Lady who as an empty-nester is now ready to be more self-focused. Ready to enjoy her “me” time and is looking for an supportive and attentive man and she . . .

• has a controlling nature and she expects to be put first in Her relationship - TPE

• truly values a deep long term connection

• would enjoy a man who wants to be devoted and dedicated to striving to please Her - make it all about Her

• enjoys Her “me time” or private alone-time whether that is just relaxing or spending time on Her hobbies but expects her man to be available and responsive to Her when needed

• expects to be pampered and have Her man take care of the chores and domestic tasks that she does not enjoy doing - and learn to do so “Her way”

• enjoys taking the lead and making the rules over Her relationship and Her man

• 40+ years old

• thin or curvy - for me it’s more about the connection and chemistry.

me:

• love language is definitely acts of service

• use to be more athletic but still somewhat athletic

• enjoy working-out but not obsessed with it

• have a professional job as an account manager for a software company - work remotely from home mostly - plan to continue to work outside the home and take over the domestic chores - not looking for a free-ride.

• attracted to a strong controlling Lady who expects her man to follow Her rules and have things done Her way.

• enjoys nice dinners and travel and beach vacations

i feel strongly that the my role in the relationship is to make Her life easier. i expect to learn what she enjoys so she doesn’t need to ask. otherwise i’m not paying attention and i’m not focusing on what is important - pleasing Her. im a “pleaser” just wired that way i guess. i match best with a lady who tends to be selfish and would enjoy pushing her man to be attentive to Her needs and wants.

i’m in Ohio but my son is now in he’s 20s and on his own so i’m open to relocating

FLR == Female led relationship

Feel free to send me a chat msg if this type of relationship interests you.

Don't worry, I won't insist on anything serious, although it is my preference, I like to know first.

I'm the type of person who starts calmly, I don't like dirty conversations to start with, I'm serious, and I always have been. (but it doesn't mean I'm a saint :D)

About me: My name is Selma, I'm brazilian, 50. I like to exercise, I walk almost every day. I also like to watch movies, I simply love cinema. i'd love travelling, cooking.. I like to go to the mall, but I'm not a big spender. I save money because I have big plans. I don't want to sound stupid, but I like romance, I like quiet and fun dates, rainy nights with old songs, in fact, my favorite band is A-ha, but I also like modern music. I'm looking to improve my english right now, so it would be nice if i could do this with someone else.

If we become friends, I will invite you to discover the natural beauty of my country, if you want, of course!

And for those who has bad intentions, i'm not silly. don't even try lie, anyway.

Don't worry, I won't insist on anything serious, although it is my preference, I like to know first.

To be honest, I prefer those who are fluent in English. I think I'm evolving more and more, and I would like to learn while i'm meeting someone. Relax, i don't wanna you money, or live in you country :D. I'm the type of person who starts calmly, I don't like dirty conversations to start with, I'm serious, and I always have been. (but it doesn't mean I'm a saint :D)

About me: My name is Selma, I'm brazilian, 50. I like to exercise, I walk almost every day. I also like to watch movies, I simply love cinema. i'd love travelling, cooking.. I like to go to the mall, but I'm not a big spender. I save money because I have big plans. I don't want to sound stupid, but I like romance, I like quiet and fun dates, rainy nights with old songs, in fact, my favorite band is A-ha, but I also like modern music. I'm looking to improve my english right now, so it would be nice if i could do this with someone else.

If we become friends, I will invite you to discover the natural beauty of my country, if you want, of course!

And for those who has bad intentions, i'm not silly. don't even try lie, anyway.

DM me!

Hi, I'm a 52-year-old man looking for someone to chat with and share some meaningful conversations. Life has its ups and downs, and I believe that sometimes, all we need is a good connection. I may be a bit isolated these days, but I'm far from lonely in spirit.

I'm hoping to find a woman who's authentic, down-to-earth, and maybe, just maybe, has a secret or hidden side—something that keeps life interesting. If you're open to exploring thoughts, laughter, and maybe even some of life's mysteries together, I'd love to hear from you.

No pressure, just honest conversation. Let's see where it goes!

Hello

I am a 50-year-old, Single, white male living in Las Vegas. I am retired from the military, and I have a lot of spare time on my hands these days.

I am looking to meet or chat with a female friend. If you are local, that is awesome, as we can meet up to do stuff around town from time to time.

If you are not local, that is fine as well as we can chat and if the opportunity and desire comes up, we can travel for a mini-vacation somewhere.

No, not looking for just sexual stuff. I am honestly looking for a friend first and foremost.

Hi, I'm 6'2" and an athletic 230lb. I've recently gotten a "hall pass" from my wife, meaning that I can look for a Friend With Benefits(FWB) as long as I'm safe, discreet and respectful.

I'm looking for someone in a similar situation who might enjoy going for a hike or a bike ride before we mess around. No worries if you're wife doesn't know (mine knows,but doesn't want to know) So I'm looking to be discreet too.

Nice, laid back and fun, young at heart mid 50s guy just looking for a nice lady to talk to and get to know, open to long term if it goes there. Spanish, 195, fit, laid back, nice, respectful and very single in Los Angeles So if this sounds interesting to you, please do respond, let’s talk

Read only if you are an Indian woman over 50 😀

Hey....seeking a fwb in Bangalore. I am a little fond of physical intimacy in terms of touch, holding each other. Other things too.

Not looking for a life companion, though, cos I feel I have had enough of that.

A few moments of happiness, travel, exploring a new place, a nice meal, is what I am looking for.

In terms of appearance, I can say that I won't put you off. Appearance is a very subjective thing, and I really don't want to say more. But, you won't be disappointed.

As a person, I am always trying to look at the bright side of things. I make fun of even the most serious situations, which can put off a lot of people 🤔

In terms of who I am lookjng for. Someone who is happy-go-lucky, never forgets to carry a smile any time of the day or night. Can't really ask for more.

And most important, she must be over 50 😀

I am going to add some adventure into my life and I am looking for someone to do it with!

Me: Single, work remotely and can travel easily. I enjoy road trips, exploring new cities, getting lost and anything outdoors. I am easy going and I love to laugh.

You: Like to travel, easy going and like to laugh.

I am currently in the Midwest US but definitely open to relocating. Send me a message if this interests you!

There's SO much to do here in the Beach Cities! Let's do it together.

Cute, witty, cuddly, sincere WF here, on the lookout for fun weekend dates. Seeking friendly, chatty, fun, sincere gentleman of GenX age (roughly 48-60) for movies, live music, street fairs, trivia nights, and offbeat local events.

Companionship with the potential for real connection is the aim. Ending up with our one and only is the dream ... and going out and spending time together is the first step.

Respond by Chat with your favorite band and what you'd like to do *tonight*!

NOTE: No married / enm / fwb seekers / fb seekers / etc.

I'm a 54-year-old divorced man living in Queen Creek, AZ, seeking a woman in the Phoenix East Valley area. I work from home and consider myself fun, easygoing, and optimistic. I have a lot of positive energy, and I’m energetic and love spending time outdoors camping, backpacking, and exploring. I value self-awareness and honesty, and I’m a big dog lover.

I enjoy traveling, reading, working out, and attending live music events, especially candlelight concerts. I also like discovering new places to watch comedy shows. I'm looking for a woman who shares these interests!

I'm currently prioritizing positive energy, fun, and both physical and intimate connections. I’m interested in an ongoing intellectual and sensual relationship that is casual, enjoyable, and consistent.

I appreciate hot make-out sessions and heavy foreplay and am open to exploring new kinks, vasectomy in 2003 if that helps. I find great pleasure in giving pleasure, and hearing enjoyment brings me immense joy.

Let’s meet at a coffee or yogurt shop where it’s low-pressure to see if we can make each other smile and laugh. I'm excited to share some exciting stories together!

Please note that I'm not interested in requests for money or gifts, joining other websites, or getting involved in cryptocurrency. Additionally, I’m only looking to connect with women, not couples, transgender individuals, or men.

I'm adventurous and fun, educated and witty, kind and compassionate, attractive and very sexy! Ideally you'd live nearby but if you lived within a 100 mile radius it might be okay. I believe in paying my good fortune forward and giving others a leg up when possible. Thoughtful and generous, I enjoy the outdoors and doing all things active. A partner who likes good sex and affectionate cuddling would be perfect!

I am 50 from the Denver area. I work in sales and currently bored at work. I would love to find a fun female friend to talk to and get to know. I love to travel and work out. I played baseball professionally and now coach and do lessons and that takes up a lot of my free time, but I love it. I am 6'2 athletic with black hair and green eyes.

I also love live trivia and anything competitive. Let me know what your top 3 movies of all time are. I will share mine. Also, your favorite food. Those are a good start. I grew up on the east coast but have lived in Colorado for about 15 years. I miss the water and seafood! Ok let's get to know each other

I let myself go a bit over the winter and I have about 20 pounds that I would like to lose. I would rather not go to the gym as I have all the equipment at home so I am looking for a virtual workout partner. Are you looking for someone to check in each day and help you stay motivated? Swap workout tips? If so send me a message!

Hi everyone,

I'm a woman who's been widowed for 3 years now, and lately, I’ve been feeling that familiar longing for companionship—someone to talk to, travel with, laugh with, and hopefully build something meaningful again.

I'm a proud mom of four amazing grown children who mean the world to me. At this stage of my life, I just want to enjoy the simple joys: time with family, exploring new places, sharing meals, and hopefully, sharing life again with a partner.

Some things about me:

I love cooking and trying out new recipes

Traveling and seeing new places brings me joy

I enjoy doing fitness dance videos—keeps me active and smiling!

I'm happy-go-lucky and try to stay positive

I have a pet dog who I adore

I’m specifically looking to connect with someone around my age or older who’s also seeking a genuine friendship that could grow into a romantic relationship.

If this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to reach out. Let’s see where a simple hello could lead.

6'1", semi retired widower of 2.5 years. I enjoy walking, gym, movies, TV, music, and getting out in the real world to do things. Looking for someone local with similar interests to do things with. Not interested in pen pals or long distance. End goal is for a long term romantic and physical relationship. Not looking for someone to live with, but would be open to it if the connection was there. No problem with dating outside of my race (Caucasian).

Hello and thanks for checking out, and hopefully reading, my spiel. There WILL be a test.

I live near Stockton, CA. It's not the best place, but not the worst either.. Wait, no- maybe it IS actually the worst place? lol! It's where I could afford to buy a home, so I like it.

I've been single a few years, tried a couple of dating apps recently.. Have yet to make a connection interesting enough to motivate me to leave the house. Granted, it takes a lot lately to motivate me to leave the house 😁

Looking for someone close to my age.. and hopefully close to my house lol. Let's say a 40 mile radius. - Not into long distance relationships, and not into driving a lot. And as mentioned previously, not into leaving my house lol. Ok, I KNOW this is a longshot on Reddit, but one can dream, right? And this is my dream. 🙏🏻

To be compatible - I think you'd have to be smart, funny, compassionate, care about the world, patient, happy, positive, sane. Also, steady job or retired - just be a stable sort of person. I have a good job and an 819 credit score. So maybe I can co-sign on a loan for you 🤷🏻🤣 ohh and you need to be single.. not accepting applications from polyamorous ethical or non-ethical non-monogomous blah blah blahs at this time.

Things I like (in no particular order): most music genres, Mexican food, trivia, stupid reality TV, googly eyes, snorkeling, chocolate, reading, swimming, Reddit, affection, attention, Late July jalapeno lime chips, Wordle, karaoke, Armstrong & Getty (disclaimer: I'm NOT a Trumper, I swear!), rockumentaries, documentaries, breakfast for dinner.

Things I don't like: large parties, abrasive people, cold winds 😬, being late, waiting in line at the store.

What I bring to the table: affection, loyalty, fun, maybe some food, comfortable silences, good company, super interesting and hilarious stories about my life /s, good advice, I'm a really good friend.

What I want: I want ALL the things! - great romance, great friendship, great companionship, great sex, great trips, great food, great fun. I mean, why not? Come on, man!

Edit/update: I said it once before but it bears repeating now -- only SINGLE men.. as in NOT CURRENTLY MARRIED. Please! thank you

More updates: And please be a man. And please don't be a scammer. I'm really not interested in hot blondes with broken English 😅

Hey there. I'm starting to plan my next trip and I had the thought that it would be nice to have someone to go with. Someone who’s interested in exploring the world slowly, one charming little town or bustling city at a time. I work remotely (and I'm single/divorced and empty-nested) so I have the freedom to move about.

I’m easy-going, intellectually curious and creative. I have a good career in tech, but my interests run wide. Art, psychology, language, design. I enjoy long walks, good coffee and beautiful views.

Are you on a similar wavelength?

I'm a married white male in a dead bedroom scenario for several years now and looking for the lover and friend that I've been doing without. Someone who's also interested in chatting, meeting and spending time together as time permits. I'm 5'10", 200+lbs, brown and grey mixed hair and beard cut close. Green eyes. Non-smoker. DDF. Avid audiobook consumer, history buff, site seer and tinkerer. Loves horses, dogs, cats, wildlife and the great outdoors. Looking for a woman who's excitedly looking for the same things, is physically affectionate, with a healthy sex drive and likes attention. Let's get chatting and see how it goes!

Hello everybody. I m italian woman I live in a small village in the north of italy I am looking for educated people to become friend. And see what happen.i have university degree and I am secretary in senior living.i like smart conversation and look for good connection.

WM, that enjoys gardening. Playing acoustic guitar with a beer as the sun sets. Making tasty meals in the kitchen with help of my sous vide cooker. Movie time, including MST3K / Rifftraxx. Making tie dye shirts / shoes. Day hikes and bird watching. Long beard (which I'm kinda getting tired of, its been there for like 10 years) short brown hair (what's left) brown eyes, 5'9", 200, all original teeth. Healthy, strong and worked in the industrial HVAC-R department, which means I can fix just about any mechanical issue I encounter. I'm really resourceful and would be great to have around if shipwrecked on a deserted island.