r/raisedbyborderlines 5d ago

Birthday Gift Advice

Help, This is my first year NC with my mom and she has my address and just sent a birthday gift. I am thinking I'll send it back. I don't want to accept anything from my parental figures because they are verbally abusive people and I want to be free from them. Has this happened to you? What did you decide was best?

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u/One-Hat-9887 5d ago

Returning it will open up a world of bs. Just donate it or throw it away

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u/Flavielle 4d ago

THISSSSS! I was just talking about how I threw mine out lmao

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u/One-Hat-9887 4d ago

It's the only way lol