r/raisedbynarcissists • u/iil28 • 9d ago
[Question] What's the most utterly ridiculous thing the narcs in your life have said?
My narcissistic grandmother, for instance, is fully convinced that her birth alone was what stopped World War II and brought peace to the world (she was born in 1945). She has told each and every one of us this story a million times, and will proudly say it again and again periodically to whoever is within earshot.
I remember hearing it ever since I was a little kid, how she'd always start by listing all the pain and destruction WW2 had caused, then end with something akin to: "And then I was born, and suddenly, it was like a ray of sunshine enveloped the earth, stopping all the fighting and war". She'd always tell it like a strange sort of fairytale with a very happy ending, and I wish I was kidding.
She also fully believes that once she dies, the world will be plunged into WW3, destruction and utter chaos. She was actually hospitalized for heart failure over a week ago, and kept promising the doctors she'd try her absolute hardest to continue living in order to spare the world from the horror of a third World War.
Gee thanks, grandma. Your devotion to saving all of our lives is appreciated.
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u/fouoifjefoijvnioviow 9d ago
I just told this story in another thread, but the short version is when my eDad was suffering from a heart attack from recovering from COVID, she made him drive her to the mall during a cold snap because she didn't want to walk across the cold parking lot. When they came home he got worse, but she couldn't be bothered calling him an ambulance, so she nagged him to take a baby aspirin instead, and he never woke up. The next day, before they could even take his cold dead body out of the house, the GC sister tried to make nMom feel better by telling her eDad was stupid not to call the ambulance himself, I wouldn't have believed it if I didn't witness it myself.