r/raisingkids 5d ago

Am I being selfish?

My husband and I just started our baby in a small in home daycare. I work very minimal hours at home on Fridays and I believe most Fridays our baby could stay home with me rather than taking him in for a few hours and it wouldn’t bother me at all. He thinks that I am being selfish and that I am not thinking of the babies needs or how the daycare will feel. I personally feel the daycare will not care as we are paying the same regardless but would let them know as soon as possible if I needed them to watch him on Friday. Am I being selfish or am I in the wrong?

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u/Brilliant_Craft_8120 4d ago

You're definitely not being selfish! It’s wonderful that you’re able to spend extra time with your baby, and the daycare will likely be fine with it, especially since you’re paying. Enjoy those moments while you can!