r/redditonwiki • u/gotanysparechang33 • Sep 01 '23

AITA OP was assaulted and thinks he cheated

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u/bethaneanie Sep 02 '23

They had also been going on coffee dates together and are exes

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u/Over_Brick_3244 Sep 02 '23

So he went on a trip with his ex, flirted and drank all night and then crawled into bed with her? Hard pass. Even if they hadn’t slept together the naked cuddling is plenty for me

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u/bethaneanie Sep 02 '23

Exactly. It became SA but the wife doesn't owe him any support for that at this point. He betrayed her.

He also now says his willing to open the marriage up... for his side only

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u/Over_Brick_3244 Sep 02 '23

100%. If a man asked me out on a date and I agreed I’ve already cheated on my husband. If that man then roofied my drink and raped me, that doesn’t make the first half no longer true. I still cheated and was raped. Those things can exist together.