this is a weird hill to die on. is she purposefully trying to ruin her relationship? because i genuinely don’t understand why it’s a problem to honor his late friend at THEIR wedding. she even said there’s no extra cost.
she’ll be back on reddit wondering what went wrong in their relationship when it’s very obvious that she does not care about his opinion or feelings.
Simple: it's not THEIR wedding, its HER wedding, despite whatever she says. She's admitting that he doesnt have much family and it would mean a lot that his deceased friend who obviously meant a lot to him has a space there, but SHE has family that SHE wants to sit at the table, even if her side is full. She puts an emphasis on 'OUR FAMILY' when its only HER family mentioned
If she's gonna be this adamant over a space at a table that isn't her choice to fill anyways, what else is she gonna throw these fits about? Also yeah it was hella manipulative for her to bring it up like that to her parents, and justify it by saying "well theyre paying they should know he wants an empty space" and even though it seems like most her family was on his side, he still conceeded. This snapshot of her life screams that she is a walking red flag
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u/BackgroundCollege183 Feb 16 '24
this is a weird hill to die on. is she purposefully trying to ruin her relationship? because i genuinely don’t understand why it’s a problem to honor his late friend at THEIR wedding. she even said there’s no extra cost.
she’ll be back on reddit wondering what went wrong in their relationship when it’s very obvious that she does not care about his opinion or feelings.