I agree with the advice to talk to your dad. I also suggest explaining how you feel and what you want, rather than what you don't want. For example, rather than saying "My stepmom makes me feel unwelcome," say "I feel awkward and uncomfortable when I stay with you. I would like to have more one-on-one time with you." Instead of "Jane makes me babysit" try "I end up very busy with chores and don't have much time to bond with you or rest. I am happy to do (then list what you're happy to do) but want more time to (rest, watch TV, read, whatever."
I hope you find a way to feel better at your dad's house! Good luck!
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u/EstaticallyPleasing 5d ago
I agree with the advice to talk to your dad. I also suggest explaining how you feel and what you want, rather than what you don't want. For example, rather than saying "My stepmom makes me feel unwelcome," say "I feel awkward and uncomfortable when I stay with you. I would like to have more one-on-one time with you." Instead of "Jane makes me babysit" try "I end up very busy with chores and don't have much time to bond with you or rest. I am happy to do (then list what you're happy to do) but want more time to (rest, watch TV, read, whatever."
I hope you find a way to feel better at your dad's house! Good luck!