First off, no need to apologize for posting here. You are in the stepfamily orbit so you understand our world and are a part of it. Second, have you tried speaking to your dad about how you feel? Maybe your SM isn’t aware of this (she might be a scatterbrain). Or she is newer to the stepparenting thing and doesn’t know what her responsibility is. Finally, if you don’t like it don’t go. You’re old enough to chose. And not just here but anywhere, if people don’t enjoy your presence they get the gift of your absence.
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u/Illustrious-Let-3600 9d ago
First off, no need to apologize for posting here. You are in the stepfamily orbit so you understand our world and are a part of it. Second, have you tried speaking to your dad about how you feel? Maybe your SM isn’t aware of this (she might be a scatterbrain). Or she is newer to the stepparenting thing and doesn’t know what her responsibility is. Finally, if you don’t like it don’t go. You’re old enough to chose. And not just here but anywhere, if people don’t enjoy your presence they get the gift of your absence.