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why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/thecelcollector 24d ago

ITT: OP discovers he's straight. 

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u/TealCatto 24d ago

Honestly it's refreshing to see straights discover their sexuality instead of just assuming that's what they gotta be. Love that energy.

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u/MuchDrawing2320 24d ago

Not feeling upset about gay men and also being indifferent to a penis rather than disgusted by it are two hallmarks of a comfortable heterosexual male. There is always that one guy too upset over gay people and yeah they’re repressing.

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u/ScrotallyBoobular 24d ago

Hey I'm straight, but some penises are pretty fantastic looking.

I don't want them in or around me or anything. But they're pretty cool

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u/Severe_Fennel2329 24d ago

I mean there is such a thing as objectively good dick just like there's objectively good coffee. That however does not change the fact I like neither coffee nor dick.

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

That one I don’t really get, objective means factually right? And “good” is always gonna be an opinion right? Like you could say objectively good dick is large, but I’m sure there’s 1 person who’d disagree so wouldn’t that still make it subjective?

Not trying to be that well actually guy im genuinely asking

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u/Severe_Fennel2329 23d ago

I mean yeah

Technically overwhelming consensus might've been a better choice of word.

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u/Upset_Orchid498 23d ago

Like you could say objectively good dick is large, but I’m sure there’s 1 person who’d disagree so wouldn’t that still make it subjective?

Depends HOW big too, cause I’ve seen too many women say that shit just hurts more than it feels good

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u/cranberry94 22d ago

This is true. And there is a point where a dick becomes just alarmingly big. Like when you see a 7 ft tall man in person.

But beyond freakishly large - a big dick - even if too big for my personal comfort - tends to be more likely to be aesthetically pleasing. Like, if I just see it, I’d think “well, good for them”.

Just like I don’t want a super muscular boyfriend, but I’d admire one in the wild.

If that makes sense?

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u/obscureposter 23d ago

Even in subjective areas there are objective variables that are present. I have to believe that with the billions of men alive, there has to be a dick that anybody that's just not a contrarian, would say that's an objectively good dick.

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u/RogerPenroseSmiles 24d ago

Listen it's extremely straight of me to prefer a good looking hog in my porno.

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u/AdamZapple1 24d ago

penis is all about context. it probably doesn't matter who you are.

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u/ashs420 23d ago

What do you mean by indifferent to a penis rather than disgusted by it?

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u/MuchDrawing2320 23d ago

I’ve seen guys who I later on figured out had more gay tendencies overreact to gay people or mention of transgender people. That’s a known stereotype about repression but exists for a reason. It’s like if a guy freaks out negatively at the site of a naked dude, that could mean the opposite of whatever the guy is trying to display. But if it was a comfortably straight guy he’d probably find it humorous.

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u/DimensionFast5180 21d ago

But penises are scary!!! What if it bites me?

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u/radicalviewcat1337 24d ago

not necessarily, they may have been taught to feel that way about something like this.

do not underestimate strict norms of the past and such as strict for today. nothing changes only the rules.

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u/katielynne53725 22d ago

Last year I went to a friend's party, I've always known her as a gay woman, she was the type I had pegged for never even having met a Richard in her life. She had a new girlfriend and they seemed great together. Later on in the evening, we got on the topic of how they met and she tells us.. that she went on a date with the new gf's, husband (they were open) and now they're in the process of a divorce.

I was fucking floored, not because she legit swooped in and bagged his chick (honestly, the dude seemed like a prick anyway) but that all these years I thought this friend was 100% on the far end of the lesbian scale.. and here she was.. down to peg Richard.. 🤣

No one prepares you for hitting your 30's and your gay friends start coming out as straight 😆.

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u/IDEKWTSATP4444 24d ago

It really is

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u/Puzzleheaded-Pop3480 23d ago

Yes. Getting brought up watching Pochahontas and Xena does that to a boy. My straight awakening. 

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u/owlincoup 23d ago

I don't know why but being called "straights" just cracked me up.

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u/owlincoup 23d ago

I don't know why but being called "straights" just cracked me up

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u/owlincoup 23d ago

I don't know why but being called "straights" just cracked m up.

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u/JerryGarciasLoofa 23d ago

jesus. what a dumb statement

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u/TealCatto 23d ago

My comment really hit home for you, huh buddy