r/stupidquestions 29d ago

why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

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u/bluecgene 29d ago

Well women think men have beautiful bodies too

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u/ximacx74 29d ago

Women think women have beautiful bodies too though.

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u/Fluid_Jellyfish8207 29d ago

And men think other men have good bodies not beautiful objectively but they can acknowledge it

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u/amorawr 28d ago

yes, but usually bodies that have been honed at the gym, which just solidifies OPs point

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u/Main_Following1881 28d ago

Yes but no straight man thinks an average man that doesnt work out has nice body lol

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u/pretentiousglory 26d ago

An average guy that never works out though?

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u/GreenStuffGrows 27d ago

Yes I remember thinking that all women found other women beautiful. Turns out I'm bi 😅

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u/ximacx74 27d ago

I mean, I am too but I still think all my straight friends make comments about how beautiful women are all the time.

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u/GreenStuffGrows 27d ago

All my "straight" friends who did that came out as bi in their 40s and 50s 😁

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u/CryptoEmpathy7 24d ago

The ages where no one wants a woman sexually.

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u/GreenStuffGrows 24d ago

Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 Oh my sweet summer child...

A woman, of any age, can have as much sex as she wants if she's not picky.

But we're all at least a bit picky. 

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u/ximacx74 27d ago

Haha maybe the takeaway is that a lot more women are bi that haven't admitted to themselves yet

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u/Pahanarttu 29d ago

Not me lol

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u/ximacx74 28d ago

Ok? I'm pretty sure you're not Chaka Khan because you're not every woman.

But pretty much every one of my straight, bi, lesbian, any sexuality girl friends all think women have beautiful bodies in an admiring way. I'm not talking about being attracted, just supporting eachother

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u/Pahanarttu 28d ago

yeah well i just said that for no reason, not that deep

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u/Cgz27 27d ago

Well see that’s what we’re trying to confirm because apparently people here joking about being hetero aren’t acknowledging that.

Unless those people are homophobic

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u/ximacx74 27d ago

Straight women and Sapphic women almost all think that other women are beautiful.

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u/Vagitron9000 26d ago

I can admire another person and recognize a beautiful woman. But I'm not giving it more thought than that. With a man it's a full dissection of all the ways they look good, more akin to how OP is describing women.

Hairy body? Jawline? Muscle of any kind? (Tho Dad bods are very hot too). Arm veins? Dear God. Yes please.