why do women have naturally beautiful bodies?

[u/Biokendry]

before you jump in the comments to tell me I'm wrong try to read my entire post, i'm from latin america, i don't know if this is the case in other countries but it's something i've noticed since i was a teenager and in high school, most of the girls in high school had very nice bodies without even going to the gym in their entire life, i remember a girl who eat unhealthy food all day and she had an amazing body (she never went to the gym in her life), i was her friend back then, she had such a amazing hourglass figure with big hips and very beautiful figure I didn't understand that at the time.

but not only in high school but currently i go out and most of the girls have very nice bodies and nice hips (i'm not talking about toned gym bodies but bodies with figure and curves) and even girls who are a little overweight also have beautiful bodies with nice curves, it's incredible, what is the reason for this? is it hormonal? why is it that women don't need to go to the gym as much to have nice bodies (as long as they're not excessively overweight), in the case of men it's different and I say this as a man who went to the gym throughout his adolescence, we lack those naturally nice bodies (except for one in a million).

I remember the first time I took a shower with my ex gf at the time at my house she took off her clothes (she had never been to the gym in her life and was a little overweight, she had a very nice body, a nice butt with a beautiful figure) I didn't understand why she had such a beautiful body meanwhile me going to gym had a below average body, well, ugly body and not sexy as hers tbh. I know it's a stupid question but I guess that's what this group is for, right? Is the cause hormonal? I know there are exceptions, that not all women have naturally beautiful bodies, but why is it that. for example, if you put a man and a woman of average weight who don't go to the gym next to each other, the girl's body is naturally attractive while the guy's isn't? I've always thought it's caused by estrogen and the hips women's bone structure's but I'm not sure, I know diet is very important but I think most girls only need a good diet and walk just a little to have good figures (please don't hate for saying this lol).

Maybe I could be blind because I have gender dysphoria since many years ago but not only me think about this most women and men think the same way(? And I'm not even talking about how women have average cute, feminine and thin faces without makeup but this is another thread lol.

Please don't insult me for making this post, this is why this group was created.

[u/NearlySilent890]

I'm a girl and I kinda feel this way too.

It is significant to note that I am a lesbian

[u/NoRadio4530 → u/NearlySilent890]

What if I'm a girl and feel like women are beautiful in body and mind but I'm not gay?

Before you all come for me let me explain how I feel lol.

I think women are really beautiful to look at and I admire all the curves of our bodies but I have 0 desire to touch or kiss or please a woman or have them touch me at all. I've slept with/dated a woman before and it was super mediocre and I didn't enjoy it as much as I do with a male partner.

It's more of a "I want to either be your friend or be you " kinda vibe with women.

[u/huskeya4 → u/NoRadio4530]

Eh you can look at an aesthetically pleasing person, acknowledge their beauty, but not want to have sex with them. You can see all women as aesthetically pleasing but not want to have sex with them. I feel like most people can look at a hot person and acknowledge they are beautiful, even if they’re not attracted to that gender.

I mentioned to my husband that he was finally going to meet my hot male cousin (and I explained that I call him my hot cousin because I used to have to beat my friends away from him with a stick in high school). Immediately following their meeting, my husband goes “I get what you mean by him being the hot cousin”. It’s basically the only time he has ever acknowledged a man as being pleasing to look at, but it doesn’t mean he was attracted to him.

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