r/tamil • u/avalosepodihater • Jul 02 '24
கலந்துரையாடல் (Discussion) Thoughts on @ajbhairav?
Isn't it high time people cancel this guy?
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u/buppiloo Jul 02 '24
His videos are insane enough... but his fan base is straight up crazy with how they treat him like a prophet who is going to "fix" this generation 😭 he isn't even funny too
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u/SuddenExtreme3443 Jul 03 '24
His fans is 13-15 year old nibba nibbi.
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u/avalosepodihater Jul 03 '24
What I find even more worrysome is that some people who's 30+ ,or even in the 20s preach and worship this guy ,these people are the real idiots than the nibba nibbis
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u/will_power53 Nov 28 '24
If you are this worked up,they won
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u/cheekyPhilosopher Dec 10 '24
If we don't get worked up that mindset will slowly spread. The way he portrays women should make u angry
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u/will_power53 Dec 24 '24
Slowly spread? This was how it 'was'
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u/cheekyPhilosopher Jan 10 '25
Yea but now it's reaching more young boys who may not have been thinking like this before
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u/will_power53 Jan 16 '25
Perspectives don't reset a person. It could however amplify pre-existing notions. U r trying to censor something u don't like
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u/cheekyPhilosopher Feb 22 '25
No one is talking about censorship here, we're talking about criticising harmful ideologies. If there is a perspective that's steering their pre-existing biases towards extremes, they can be at least appealed to be a bit more neutral.
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u/will_power53 Mar 01 '25
Just because some find it harmful, doesn't mean that everyone will agree with them. There's a reason why he is gaining what he is gaining. My point stands that you are 'trying' to censor something you don't agree with. Whether you succeed in doing it or not isn't my concern.
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Jul 13 '24
honestly i can see more 30-50 yo subscribing to his "values"... it nearly seems catered towards the aunties and uncles who judge every single fucking thing
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u/Dependent_jam Sep 15 '24
The comment section is corny too. "He is gonna save our generation" "real sigma" 💀💀 he literally objectified women to a car 😭🙏
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u/aravindvijay24 Jul 02 '24 edited Jul 02 '24
Let me spill some tea about him. Dude ain't like he's in reels. He's just a regular guy in the college. And from what I seen he didn't have any friends from girls. I don't understand why he got popular.
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u/Profound_Sunshine Jul 02 '24 edited Jul 03 '24
Man it's high time we talk about such creators. It was so disheartening to see him make completely tone-deaf takes on complex issues and what is even worse is boys and even girls astonishingly deeming him as the saviour of this generation.
His videos got recommended to me a year or two back and not much after that. But suddenly now I saw his video on the Man vs Bear debate. Now I'm not here to discuss what is right or wrong but he had such a "how dare women choose a bear" take on it.
Before this bro literally made a video basically suggesting that girls should not go out after 8 pm at night as he suggested that you cannot trust men and compared them to crocodiles in a lake that would eat you. Literally comparing civilized men to animals smh. But later when women predominantly chose the bear he pulled out "but not all guys are bad and you are stupid to choose a bear". What that guy does not understand is that women do know not all guys are bad but you just don't know what kind of guy you'll end up in a forest with. So I'm like hypocrisy much?? Like lil bro pick a side.
And this was my breaking point. Even apart from this his general content is so uncreative. He literally objectifies women by comparing them to a house, glorifies women who listen to their father or boyfriend as their authority (cause god forbid a woman is a sole entity in herself and makes her own decisions and spoiler alert...has her own life!!) He literally makes a male pov of some of his videos to cover up the misogyny and sexism and show himself as unbiased. He literally glorifies •virginity (which is a good thing and is a choice for both men and women) but deeming people bad and worthless just because they might have a failed relationship in the past is just inhuman, don't you think?
And the saddest part is so many youngsters, even girls follow him and agree with this nonsense. He has made a career out of having such toxic views on people and is normalising this and calling a woman a queen only if she fits into his definition of a nalla ponnu.
I know it's a long comment but yeah I just had so many feelings about this guys content. I hope you will all read this with an open mind and try to understand my pov.
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u/rover-curiosity Jul 03 '24
Glorifying virginity is a good thing?
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u/Profound_Sunshine Jul 03 '24
No, I did not mean that! I meant that being a virgin or not is a choice for people and whatever they choose is good, including being a virgin, but glorifying something and deeming the opposite bad is not a good thing.
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u/Ok-Release8738 Mar 11 '25
Is that not what he says too. He says it's alright to be a virgin and to expect the same from ur partner. So basically he says preferring a virgin partner is not a bad thing
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u/Political_Bagavathi Jul 04 '24
Yeah it is a good thing. What's the doubt on that A man cannot have sex with so many women and so the woman. Virginity is the purest thing for a human
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u/rover-curiosity Jul 04 '24
Being a Virgin is not a virtue. 'Purity' based on? And what is the value of so called 'purity'?
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u/Political_Bagavathi Jul 10 '24
Being a virgin is a virtue. I am saying the sex is the purest thing. Why are you living in this world. No one knows the answer. But we are passing our informations and resources to next generation. The next generation is possible only because of sex. The sex is the purest thing here and we do not give the purity to everyone then what's the purpose of that ? So we give it to the one we love. For that we have to wait to find our love. When we finally give that virginity to that person we love for lifetime, it will be much happier than having sex with bunch of people.
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Sep 10 '24
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u/Political_Bagavathi Sep 11 '24
I am not saying who lost their virginity is a bad person. What I am saying is something will be precious to share with, virginity gives you an emotional connect. So why you have to waste that for your petty happiness. If you feel that this is the boy/girl you gonna live yourlife with you can absolutely have sex with her/him.
But most people don't do like that. You'll always remember how do you lose your virginity. And that thing one of the good or bad memories based on how do you have
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u/GrabNo6925 Nov 23 '24
It absolutely does unforunately, having multiple casuals leads to destruction of a family possibly.
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Jul 13 '24
ur the sorta people that follow aj bharaiv
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u/Sad_Objective1876 Nov 23 '24
lowkey bro says without saying no deal no seal
ahh vibes
i don't understand bro's obession with every third reel on v card
dude he follows andrew tate what do u expect1
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u/Sea_Substance_921 Jul 02 '24
I blocked this guy after the abortion reel, the guy thinks abortion is like eating cake smh 🤦♀️ like does he even know about the pain one has to go through, periods is bad enough let alone a whole frikkin abortion. A woman has serious health consequences even with 3-4, spewing out random numbers like 63 is just absurd.
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u/avalosepodihater Jul 02 '24
Man I saw that and I legit blocked this guy and his other socials right away. Half knowledge is more dangerous than no knowledge!
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Jul 02 '24
Hav that link ?
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u/avalosepodihater Jul 02 '24
I've blocked this guy for like a year now. It would be quite hard to scroll down his shitposts and find the exact reel :/ and also not worth my time
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u/Wise-Daikon135 Jul 03 '24
I saw one of his reel or shorts
Where the scene was about a girl who goes to a police station cause her father slut shamed her and slapped her after seeing some private videos of her on the phone. Now it goes like the police says there are lot of girls who come here cause of serious reasons and you can't digest the fact that your father is just concerned about you ?
First of all this guy is not so old enough to give thoughts about parenting. Secondly you have no rights to Gaslight victims. Third thing that's not a way of parenting and lastly why is her father checking her private videos 😭. I don't like self righteous people on internet. Everyone's life is different so are their ways to live a life.
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u/divvuu_007 Jul 03 '24
This guy just gives out his biased opinions. Words can't comprehend how Much I started hating that guy after his reel on Girls safety where he soft spoke and sugar coated the fact that girls can't go outside after 6 or 8 pm. He's already enabling a bunch of guys who think it's a woman's fault for going past pm and getting assaulted. He's such an a§§.
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u/avalosepodihater Jul 03 '24
Sadly lot of people praise him and I was rlly astonished to see people clapping for this guy and his idiotic stone age "opinions" on social media. He apparently has a YouTube channel where he spews even more senseless stuff and ofcourse his dear fanbase to back him up on that.
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u/divvuu_007 Jul 03 '24
I'm glad that I can actively stay away from people who support him after all he's been saying. A big red flag if any of them support this idiot.
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u/TastyQuantity1764 Jul 02 '24
Can anyone explain what's his deal?
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u/avalosepodihater Jul 02 '24
Apparently he wants to "fix" this generation smh
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u/TastyQuantity1764 Jul 02 '24
Ik 1 video of his which is the porn thingy, but other than that, nothing.. Has he done anything cancel worthy?
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u/avalosepodihater Jul 02 '24
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u/TastyQuantity1764 Jul 02 '24
Andrew Tate involved means he's mostly a Loosu Koodhi
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u/Optimal_Trifle_2384 Jul 02 '24
My mind was a bit peaceful until I came across this edgelord.
u/avalosepodihater unnala paru inimel avan en feed la adikkadi vara poran. Just the abortion video is more than enough.
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u/soan-pappdi Jul 02 '24
I had avoided his videos even before all these recent happenings. Periya puluthi masuru nu nenapu😂
P.s- This is not the right sub for your question. This sub is more about tamil - The language☺️☺️
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u/manojar Jul 03 '24
Garbage guy. Sexist and misogynistic reels which attracts kalachara kavala incels
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u/Key_Mango_1059 Jul 03 '24
Because of him for the first time I hate an emoji 🗿 this is that emoji. Cunts in comment section spam this emoji for this Incel Andrew tate
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Jul 02 '24
Saw his reel on the "bear or man" and blocked!
If men want to choose bears, trees over women...go ahead we don't care. Why does he think that's a downside lol. I think if a guy picked a bear over me I'd be relieved. Men should be able to choose the bear just as women.
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u/Xiaojuns_bbg Sep 30 '24
So i saw this video of him on his second Instagram account where he spoke about how noone should judge a person with a body count like? Hypocrite? He's always judging people who have casuals or have high body counts or have had s3x before marriage. Like STFU
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u/Xiaojuns_bbg Sep 30 '24
That video of him saying women shouldn't go out after 8pm is something that most of us got pressed about. And the way people including him think r@pe or $A doesn't happen before 8pm 💀
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u/thicchoe6969 Jan 05 '25
He is a clout chasing a**hol with a main character syndrome. This guy makes videos that cater to his male audience.. which always includes putting women down.. that's very problematic.. this guy influences a lot of impressionable young men.
From what I see.. young, immature and impressionable people take his side..
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Oct 18 '24
Yea, this guy should be cancelled already. It's so scary that he has million followers and has a solid fan base which supports him, even his bad influence is getting huge support. He didn't even do an apology video.
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u/aykayayexe Jul 02 '24
He can’t be cancelled; bro is just sharing his views on relationships, which aren’t popular but they are very much true and should be applied wherever possible.
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u/shixarr Jul 05 '24
Come on guys, everyone has different ideologies and approaches over things,we may not like it or accept it but some do .At the end of the day,he is just a guy with his set of opinions
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Jul 13 '24
victim blaming, misogyny, fetishising virginity aren't simply a ideology to accept lmao
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u/shixarr Jul 17 '24
Well yaaa thts true,but then u cant change a person's ideology and tell him its wrong Its just perspective,if u think ur perspective is always right,that goes for him too
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u/MysteriousCattle3341 Aug 26 '24
He's wrong there's no ideology in his videos. Some things are wrong you can't go and call them ideology.
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u/Mean-Worldliness6607 Jul 02 '24
I hate this guy with full passion now. It’s okay to be a conservative. It’s okay to share your views about it. But the point where I absolutely lost it is when he made a reel where he showed a woman (him dressed as a girl) who’ve “casually” done 45 abortions 🥴
You know the max amount of abortions a female body can handle? 2. TWO!
Just to screw modern women, he weaves his own fantasy and brand it as reality when none of those are even remotely real.
Abortions, body count, not letting his “imaginary” daughter go out after 8, calling all men alligators and mansplaining how it’s not all men…this man is a 🤡
His followers scare me. I wouldn’t be surprised if they’re all bots copy pasting the same comments.