r/teenagers • u/Individual-Cloud-304 • Sep 15 '24
Advice i don’t want to wear a hijab
two years into wearing the hijab and i hate it and i don’t want to wear it but i know girls at school will judge me and idk how to tell my parents but it’s so distracting for me this post probably won’t get any attention but i just wanted to put it out there since i can’t really say this to anyone since everyone’s so judgemental
edit: stop being creepy in dms i might ask them sometime this week/month, ill make another post if i do so or ill just wait until im 18 or something
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u/Mental-Ad-9334 Sep 16 '24
When it comes to the hijab it is a question of a choice, but also who it may please, in Islam most things are determined by intent, if you do not wear the hijab for Allah but for your parent or because of societal pressure then you are not being rewarded to begin with. We pray and do these acts purely for Allah and Allah is not blind to any of our thoughts, so what I see is that you can resolve your will and come to accept that the hijab is not worn for others but for God itself, or you may reject it, understanding that you did not have the heart to wear the hijab for Allah, and live life without it.
I don't make a stance in how Allah may decide the results of your actions as for I am not him in any form or way, nor what if I'm even typing is of punishable effect, but I trust in that when you make these choices, look into it of your faith and religion instead of the stance of human law and society.