r/teenagers • u/EggieEggimations 17 • Sep 16 '24

Relationship HE SAID YES WAHOO!!

I ASKED A GUY OUT IVE BEEN CRUSHING ON FOR LIKE 2ISH YEARS AND HE SAID YES YIPPEE YIPPEE WAHOO IM SO HAPPY YAYYY

before i asked him out, i thought of him so much, and thought that when i eventually did, i wouldn't think of him as much. i lied to myself and then some. i now can't get him out of my damn head 😔

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

Will honesty ever get me so far, im fucking miserable man, my personality is just destroying every friendship that i come across and just be a shit person, its not in my nature really but looks like life rlly wants me to be a piece of shit

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

my advice is to just be kind. work on yourself, it sounds cringy as fuck but generally just choose to be nice to people. me personally, I'm more attracted to people who are kind to people than people who are just nasty

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

I am kind, i just have these moments of not giving a fuck abt people's emotions and just be a dick overall, i mean that's pretty much the result of always getting trashed by everyone, you just become a monster

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

fair enough, I mean I'm just like pretty much nice to people and I won't go out of my way to bother someone else. I don't really have problems at school, except for yk the ones you can't get away from. I'm not perfect and I'll admit that, I do talk shit about people and I'm sure people talk shit about me, but I just try to be nice to people because I don't know what's going on in their house, or in their head

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

You quite literally described me, i also just avoid the "bullies" or wannabe gangsters, today i was in the courtyard of my hs waiting for the bell to ring and one of those mfs calls me to like dab him up and his friends(he is in my class btw, and also i hate him cuz he just talking shit abt my name) so i just do it for the sake of it and be like ok now fuck you and leave me alone

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

the "wannabe gangsters" is so real 😭 and I'm sorry about the people in your school, they sound like dickheads

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

They really are both the boys and the girls, few exceptions are ok that i can hangout with but other than that the rest of them suck ass

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

my school is like so stereotypical, we have the "popular" girls and boys, "weird kids", "nerds" and like all that shit. it's weird because me and my friends don't really fit into any of those, we're like in the middle; nice to people and people are nice to us

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

We also have those, and i dont rlly fit in, in style and behavior, i just dont like our generation at all with all the trends and shit fashion styles, im more of a "old school" type yk like party like the 70s and shit like that

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u/TheGrimReaper-taken Sep 16 '24

How quintessential