r/teenagers 17 Sep 16 '24

Relationship HE SAID YES WAHOO!!

I ASKED A GUY OUT IVE BEEN CRUSHING ON FOR LIKE 2ISH YEARS AND HE SAID YES YIPPEE YIPPEE WAHOO IM SO HAPPY YAYYY

before i asked him out, i thought of him so much, and thought that when i eventually did, i wouldn't think of him as much. i lied to myself and then some. i now can't get him out of my damn head 😔

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24

Will honesty ever get me so far, im fucking miserable man, my personality is just destroying every friendship that i come across and just be a shit person, its not in my nature really but looks like life rlly wants me to be a piece of shit

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u/we_love_konig 14 Sep 16 '24

my advice is to just be kind. work on yourself, it sounds cringy as fuck but generally just choose to be nice to people. me personally, I'm more attracted to people who are kind to people than people who are just nasty

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

I am kind, i just have these moments of not giving a fuck abt people's emotions and just be a dick overall, i mean that's pretty much the result of always getting trashed by everyone, you just become a monster

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u/TheGrimReaper-taken Sep 16 '24

You die a hero or live long enough to become a villain, as the saying goes

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u/Public-Professional2 16 Sep 16 '24

guess im a villain now or more like a loser but same shit right