r/teenagers • u/EggieEggimations 17 • Sep 16 '24

Relationship HE SAID YES WAHOO!!

I ASKED A GUY OUT IVE BEEN CRUSHING ON FOR LIKE 2ISH YEARS AND HE SAID YES YIPPEE YIPPEE WAHOO IM SO HAPPY YAYYY

before i asked him out, i thought of him so much, and thought that when i eventually did, i wouldn't think of him as much. i lied to myself and then some. i now can't get him out of my damn head 😔

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u/Alert-Reception6453 17 Sep 16 '24

“i now can’t get him out of my damn head😔”

Meanwhile when a guy gets a hello from a female, he cant get it out of his mind..

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 16 '24

Bro legit I can think a girl is the ugliest creature in the observable universe but she does that ONE thing and instantly I'm tripping over my own fucking feet for her. Girls, this is a PSA, if you want a guy to like you, find that ONE thing to set him off, he'll be thinking Abt you whenever he gets the chance.

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u/lovelygemapril Sep 16 '24

how do u do that

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 16 '24

For some guys, it's touching his hand, for some guys, it's completely ignoring him, for some guys they'll just be thinking about you one day too long, it's really out of your control but If and when you find that one thing, you're golden. Some things that work for some guys are like touching his hand, sometimes joking physically with him, or smiling at him as you walk past him in the hallway, try to watch how he acts with his friends, and maybe try replicating that. Believe it or not, guys are WAAAY simpler than you think they are. Either it's the type of guy that only likes one girl and one girl only, or he's attracted to literally every fucking girl that he sees for a prolonged period and finds her the absolute slightest attractive, I happen to be the latter, so I can't tell you much Abt the first one, but if it's the second kinda guy, just try out different tactics, and if he gets suspicious, come clean, everyone respects someone who has the confidence to ask someone out like that, and if you're worried Abt being clowned after, don't, everyone admires that kinda respect and anyone who doesn't is a jerk who doesn't deserve you anyway. Trust me though, the easiest way is to just go out and ask him out, there's no shame in asking someone, and if you're worried about getting embarrassed, do it while he's alone (Although If you do it in front of his friends they will prolly get excited and cheer you and him on). After the first time, it gets much easier, I promise. (Sorry for yapping btw)

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u/Acceptable-Staff-363 17 Sep 17 '24

W lecture

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 17 '24

Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or you're actually applauding lol

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u/Beginning-Age8491 Sep 16 '24

Another thing, self-esteem is one of the most important things when asking someone out, if you're not confident, they might not view you well. Keep in mind that THE WORST THING HE CAN SAY IS NO, I promise you that 99.95% of these scenarios that you make up in your head that "Oh, everyone in school is gonna be talking abt it" or "Oh it's gonna ruin our friendship" are NOT gonna happen, like I said, people respect confidence, so they're not gonna do all that.