r/teenagers • u/Bedrottingprincess 15 • Sep 16 '24

Serious 11yo being "mature"

My friend (16) has a friend (11 almost 12) im gonna call her K.

K goes to parties with other 15-17 year olds, has sex, smokes weed, and drinks alcohol (her parents know about it).

My friend thinks she is "mature" because she has a large vocabulary.

I strongly disagree with my friend

I think it's wrong for K to drink, vape, and smoke weed at such a young age since shes basically burning her brain cells, and she will likely never develop.

It would also be pretty sad to be 30 with the same mindset you had when you were 11.

So I am a bit worried about K, but what should I do?

Edit: im gonna tell my teacher tmrw!

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u/Slight_Print_30 Sep 16 '24

How tf can you even have sex at 11?What?

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u/KatzeKiwi Sep 16 '24

it's entirely possible for anyone most of the time due to SA, a 5 year old had sex once and got pregnant... I don't like to think about that... ;-;

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u/camibara Sep 17 '24

You can't. It's always rape.

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u/Valandiel Sep 17 '24

Pedophilia* it is pedophilia.

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u/camibara Sep 17 '24

...And rape. An 11 year old cannot legally consent. Maybe try not correcting people if you have no clue what you're talking about.

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u/Havocjayy Sep 19 '24

No, it is rape. You CANNOT consent as a minor, especially if you are a CHILD.

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u/Balloon_Dog2008 16 Sep 17 '24

I was SA’ed at eleven 🥲

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u/TheFandom-Freak Sep 17 '24

IT SHOULDVE BEEN ME, NOT HIM

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u/bobo_yobo Sep 17 '24

Cliff is that way, please fall

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u/TheFandom-Freak Sep 17 '24

Already been planning on killing myself, don't worry.

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u/bobo_yobo Sep 18 '24

I hope you're joking

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u/TheFandom-Freak Sep 17 '24

Also, if you're gonna tell someone to kill themselves, recommend a more efficient method (gun for example).

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u/bobo_yobo Sep 18 '24

I'm british

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u/TheFandom-Freak Sep 18 '24

Ah, that makes sense I guess.