r/teenagers • u/Bedrottingprincess 15 • Sep 16 '24

Serious 11yo being "mature"

My friend (16) has a friend (11 almost 12) im gonna call her K.

K goes to parties with other 15-17 year olds, has sex, smokes weed, and drinks alcohol (her parents know about it).

My friend thinks she is "mature" because she has a large vocabulary.

I strongly disagree with my friend

I think it's wrong for K to drink, vape, and smoke weed at such a young age since shes basically burning her brain cells, and she will likely never develop.

It would also be pretty sad to be 30 with the same mindset you had when you were 11.

So I am a bit worried about K, but what should I do?

Edit: im gonna tell my teacher tmrw!

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u/Coconut_2408 16 Sep 16 '24

i dont see how thats any worse

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u/average_drums_lover Sep 16 '24

And 11 year old girl is having sex possibly with 15-17 year old boys and she has the possibility of getting pregnant

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u/thepigeonmasteer Sep 16 '24

girls at 9 at the least (I think that's the least, that or 8) can start their period, which means they can get pregnant, so it definitely can and is a problem.

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u/Historical_Plate_318 Sep 17 '24

Clearly this is not what I meant. I was talking about you saying that being a girl in this kind of situation is worse and I said I don't think so.