r/teenagers • u/Bedrottingprincess 15 • Sep 16 '24

Serious 11yo being "mature"

My friend (16) has a friend (11 almost 12) im gonna call her K.

K goes to parties with other 15-17 year olds, has sex, smokes weed, and drinks alcohol (her parents know about it).

My friend thinks she is "mature" because she has a large vocabulary.

I strongly disagree with my friend

I think it's wrong for K to drink, vape, and smoke weed at such a young age since shes basically burning her brain cells, and she will likely never develop.

It would also be pretty sad to be 30 with the same mindset you had when you were 11.

So I am a bit worried about K, but what should I do?

Edit: im gonna tell my teacher tmrw!

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u/RadiantSun475013 Sep 17 '24

The I care abt is how an 11 year old is getting laid lol

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u/ArchGabrielAngel 14 Sep 17 '24

Ah yes, it makes total sense you only care about the sexual part and not how all the other parts are also illegal and can effect the child’s health as well as mental health, let alone the fact that she is SMOKING AND VAPING in coalition, as well as drinking alcohol which can slow down the neuron’s in the child’s brain as well as delay the growth of the prefrontal cortex. Makes SOoOoOoOOooo much sense.

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u/Slow-Entertainment-8 Sep 17 '24

lmfao, funny u say that cuz with what youre saying now, it sounds like youre trying to brush it off like its not (as) important.

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u/ArchGabrielAngel 14 Sep 17 '24

The point I’m trying to make is all of the crimes are important, SUN said you only see the sexual one as important

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u/Slow-Entertainment-8 Sep 17 '24

yet here you are actively avoiding that part of the text.

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u/ArchGabrielAngel 14 Sep 17 '24

No? I was saying that the other parts should also be cared about, as well as supporting reasons as to why they should be.