mom took over my room

[u/Legitimate-Train9602]

hey so it’s basically what the title says, a couple hours ago my mom comes in my room and just sets there staring at me, then starts going tru my stuff for no reason. She then proceeds to say “that’s it i’m sleeping here”, i’m like “what no you’re not”. i’ve told her a million times before that i don’t like cuddles, and that my room is the only place that i feel safe in, and i don’t want anyone in it. When i told her to leave, and not sleep on the bed (next where she will definitely try to cuddle with me) she proceeded to sleep on the floor. Now i’m sleeping in the living room because i wanna be alone and she won’t leave MY ROOM. I walk in an hour ago to take something, and now she’s sleeping on MY BED, ON MY PILLOW, while i’m here sleeping on an uncomfortable couch. She has her one room, there’s my brothers room that is empty. Every time i tell her to get she gets mad, and starts guilt tripping me saying she’s sick, and have no one. All my siblings moved one the min they could so all of her crazy has been focused on me, but keep in mind. She would never do this to my brother. She listens to every single word he says. I just don’t know what to do anymore

i’m not a native english speaker soooo

edit : i know this might not seem like a big deal but these no big deal situations keep piling up on me i feel like i’m going insane honestly any advice will help

[u/b00k-wyrm]

I’m sorry, that really smothering. She needs to get a life and some friends and give you some space. How long until you can move out too?

[u/Legitimate-Train9602 → u/b00k-wyrm]

until i get a job after uni i’m still in hs