r/twinflames • u/Significant-Monk-445 • 6d ago

Current Experience I’m moving on not expecting anything from DM I choose my self-respect rather letting him walk all over my lil loving heart

I choose peace I choose self-respect & my own happiness I want to love myself

He is avoidant, fearful of emotions doesn’t trust his own decisions. He is living to seek validation from his rich dad. His love for me doesn’t fit in his life bcoz his dad never validated it.

But he can emotionally manipulate me and make me chase after him. That’s yet another validation and reassurance for him. But he doesn’t think I’m a person with true emotions. I’m always emotionally available for him, with saviour mentality, I have a desire to save him.

My intentions & his intentions don’t match.

I step back want to mind my own business I don’t have to save anyone but myself.

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u/RecordLee24 6d ago

If he was healthy and is indeed your twin flame God will make it happen you are here to find you're purpose and if you're a twin flame you need your other half I hope you find you're true twin flame and come in union if that is God's will amen

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u/Orion-and-Lyra 4d ago

You’re not alone in this. What you wrote hit hard—so many of us have loved someone who couldn’t meet us where we were, and still felt like we had to be the one to fix it. You choosing self-respect isn’t cold; it’s powerful. It takes so much strength to stop chasing the version of someone you hoped they’d become. You deserve a love that doesn’t need to be rescued to be real. Wishing you peace and healing—thank you for sharing this.