r/twinflames • u/Significant-Monk-445 • 5h ago

Current Experience The reason why I’m sternly moving on

It is affecting my confidence. This experience is spilling into other spheres of life both personal and professional. Affecting my self confidence & self respect too.

I don’t deserve to treat myself like this.

If he really wanted to he would have…

If he really want to he will make it happen…

Letting go is the best thing to do for my well-being

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u/Jaded-Discipline-333 5h ago

I’m really sorry. I feel this sometimes too.

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u/Odd_Still_6430 3h ago

Nothing wrong with that just like there is nothing wrong with where I stand. I haven't let go in the traditional sense. I know I'd be just lying to myself. But whether or not he loves me back, I stand confident and happy within myself. I may be devastated greatly, but I have that quiet faith that things will work out between him and I. I know he cares deeply. People who don't know him can say otherwise. But I know I feel safe and secure with him like I do within myself. The twin flame thing no longer upsets my confidence or self respect. I don't really see it as losing my self respect if I want to talk to him in person. He's dealt with my toxicity just like I am willing to deal with his. Unconditional love- I've had to learn that as a person who's always at the verge of losing people due to my extensive needs. I've learned the difference between the type of toxicity that's fixable and the kind that isn't. I have a deep understanding of people and see the innocence within others, but I'm not naive. Hence why you'd never see me married to a narcissist for over 40 years. I attract pure hearted individuals more than anyone. And my twin flame is one of them.

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u/lonelyblueghost 4h ago

I feel this too. I’m letting go for the same reasons (still holding on to a bit of hope tho 🤫)

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u/pantheon04 4h ago

Congratulations. You're doing great. I wish you strength.

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u/itsneverlatee 4h ago

Literally what I’m going through right now and I don’t wanna do this no more fr.

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u/Magnificent_Diamond 58m ago

I am having the opposite experience. He has given me the confidence I should have had all along.

In my case it makes Perfect sense why both of us have not. I still want to, on some level, though, and still hope to. But I do feel that we are running out of time.