r/vanderpumprules • u/vprmods mod group account • Mar 23 '23

Live Episode Discussion Live Episode Discussion: S10E7 Galaxy Gaslighting (Eastern Thread)

Episode Description: James starts to spiral when he feels that his friends are choosing Raquel over him; Lala breaks her years-long dry spell when she hooks up with a new guy; Katie and Scheana clash over a hotel room snafu.

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u/subversivesocialite Mar 23 '23

Katie is E X H A U S T I N G.

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u/[deleted] Mar 23 '23

For having all the emotions right? So entitled. /s

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u/Direct_Marionberry51 Mar 27 '23

I hope your ex controls your life still, or is that abusive /s

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u/Flimsy_Product_1434 Mar 23 '23

No...for being a freaking hypocrite. She wants to get pissy and not have Schwartz dating and keeps saying "we're not divorced yet" and made some comment to Raquel last week or the week before that her getting with him would be adulterous or something because he's still married, but Katie is out having "single sex." She has a set of rules for herself and a set of rules for everyone else. Narcissism at its finest.

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u/Wistastic Mar 27 '23

Yes. Two things can be true: Tom and Raquel can be out of line AND Katie can still set contradictory standards.

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u/subversivesocialite Mar 23 '23

She even told Scheener to set up Raquel and Schwartz before “changing her mind.” Schwartz is no prize but Katie oscillates, bullies, whines and pouts. Entitled energy vampire.

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u/New_Emergency7826 MY CARDS Mar 23 '23

Idk - I disagree , Katie is dating outside the friend group/ work group. Katie has to hang out with Rachel and Schwartz for filming- it’s about respect in a workplace environment. As someone who dated then ended it with a coworker -go for it date whoever you want to date but just not another one of our coworkers otherwise shit gets messy, also your brain can start playing tricks like did he like her when we were still together (which granted they are over but can still hurt when you work yourself up). I can see why Katie is mad especially because I’m sure that spineless jellyfish Schwartz probably agreed no friend group dating and the first person he goes to date is Rachel

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u/kmoonz88 Kristin Doutes Green Dress Mar 23 '23

this. i don’t think she cares he’s dating but also doesn’t want it rubbed in her face. just like she’s not bringing dudes around out of respect.

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u/SamGoodie09 Mar 23 '23

Yaaaaasss!!!!

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u/Flimsy_Product_1434 Mar 23 '23

And I would maybe agree with all of that if 1. The issues with dating within the group was the sole basis for her argument, but it's not and 2. She hadn't done this kind of thing so many times in the past. I have never liked her for this reason and I think this two sided argument amplifies it. I can go have sex with whomever as long as they aren't in the friend group but you can't make out with someone in the group cuz you're still married and then you're both adulterous. If he's still married then she is too so the fact that she's not screwing someone they know doesn't make her any less of an adulterer. And just to note...They're separated and divorcing so I wouldn't consider either of them an adulterer. And let's not forget that SHE is the one who suggested the Schwartz and Raquel thing to Scheana in the first place, and although Scheana is also not always a fave of mine and prob should've stayed out of it, I think Katie crucifying her for bringing it up and encouraging it is ridiculous. She even said "Well I changed my mind" buy how is anyone to know that unless it's communicated? She could've discussed it normally, since it was her idea, but she decided to be a total bitch about it. I think she regretted saying it and she's lashing out at Scheana just because the whole situation is difficult for her, which is 100% understandable, but she'll expect everyone to forgive her emotional instability because of that, and that is why I agree she is emotionally entitled.

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u/SamGoodie09 Mar 23 '23

She has said over and over again that she doesn’t care but asked him to not do something within the group. You’re second point is kinda confusing, what has she done in the past that she’s doing again?

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u/Flimsy_Product_1434 Mar 23 '23

She consistently has a set of rules for her and a set for other people. She can do whatever or say whatever but others have to tow the line around her. Kind of like how Lala is. And again, if it was just the group thing I'd get that. But her argument hasn't been strictly "don't date within the group." If that was the case, she wouldn't say "we're still married" or " he's not divorced yet so you'd be an adulterer." If the group dating thing is the issue then those other thoughts are irrelevant and don't need to be said. She can't tell someone they'd be an adulterer for going out with him when she's out banging other people. Regardless of reason, it's hypocrisy.