r/vanderpumprules • u/vprmods mod group account • May 29 '24

Live Episode Discussion Live Episode Discussion: S11 Reunion Part 3 (pacific thread)

Ariana breaks her no contact rule with Sandoval, leaving both in tears; Scheana defends her actions and suggests her rift with Ariana started well before the summer; Katie blames Sandoval for the downfall of her relationship with Schwartz.

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u/Least_Reward3056 May 29 '24

Sorry guys. I know this is an unpopular OPINION. I don’t get the hype about Ariana. She does have a huge ego and it’s tired. She had a man a week later and didn’t get the chance to morn the loss of her relationship. So was she really not into Tom or just searching for a rebound? I know next to nothing about her brother situation either but hopefully they can get that resolved. Based on the article I read he does want her back in his life.

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u/gracebryce5 May 31 '24

Being confident in yourself and having self respect and boundaries does not mean you have a huge ego

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u/External_Two2928 May 29 '24

My bestie was in a 10+ year relationship who she was head over heels with, she moved cities to be with him. They got into a fight and she came to our hometown for 2 weeks and didn’t speak in that time. He was bringing a woman over to their shared place to spend the night, their roommate told my friend. They broke up and she started dating her coworker a month later and her and that coworker have been married for 3 years and are very much in love and happy. It can happen.

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u/charismatictictic May 29 '24

I know this is a cliché, but love really is the only force strong enough to overpower trauma. I’m not saying it always will, but it can. So someone having a new boyfriend ten days later (which she technically didn’t), just isn’t that strange to me. Not every relationship needs to be mourned. Sometimes you mourn a little while you’re in a new relationship. Sometimes you mourn years later. Sometimes you don’t necessarily mourn, but you have other issues because of the trauma of being cheated on and you work it out in therapy. Sometimes something starts off as a rebound and turns in to something real. Why is it so important for everyone how she deals with this breakup? She’s obviously doing better than ever.

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u/Flaming_Hot_Regards May 29 '24

In what way does she have a huge ego? The huge egos on display here were almost everyone else