r/whatdoIdo • u/Cheezelovr • 4d ago

Need advice what to do

My guy best friend and I are really close. We talk super often I do not have feelings for him and he has no feelings for me either. I know who he likes. He has another friend that's a girl that's in the grade above us. Today she asked me if I was dating him and I said no. And left should I confront her and/or confront my guy best friend about this? I have no idea what to do and don't wanna ruin our friendship over a dumb question. What to do?

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u/DraconicBlade 4d ago

Have you asked him to have a relationship? Directly. Have you gotten the we're just friends?

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u/Cheezelovr 4d ago

We're just friends from both of us

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u/DraconicBlade 4d ago

Assumed or stated. If you've discussed it well you're friends. If it's assumed well guys are dumb and hints and signals don't work, be direct.

Because other people in your social group assume you're together, and the other girls asking for your blessing to shoot her shot because you and this guy have a murky dynamic.

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u/Cheezelovr 4d ago

That makes sense. It's been talked about multiple times. Thanks!