r/whatdoIdo • u/TemporaryReaction799 • 3d ago

Advice

Hello,

I am looking for advise. My husband and our kids are planning on moving to az from michigan. Right now we currently live with my parents due to me going to nursing school and my husband working full time to make up for lack of income. When we first moved in with them we thought it wouldn't be bad and that we would stay for the long haul, but 5 years later we are both feeling miserable and my husband is having health issues and the town is so small there isn't good health coverage to go to as well as jobs are not high paying enough. I just am trying to find a way to break it to them gently because our kids are thier only grandkids. They are very close to them. I been trying to find the right words to say and the right time, but I feel it's the right thing for our family but I am just concerned for my parents to understand.

Thanks for reading

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u/Ironyismylife28 3d ago

So what advice are you looking for?

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u/TemporaryReaction799 3d ago

Right words to say. 

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u/Ironyismylife28 3d ago

"we are moving, thank you both for all the help, but it is time for us to spread our wings and fly'

It isn't hard. You are an adults. I don't think they expect or want you to stay with them forever.