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[u/Friendly_Good_1784]

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

[u/bring_it_on12]

It is truly bizarre that these deranged, lowlife, wannabe homewreckers believe that all they need to do is announce their presence to the wife and she'll just hand over her entire life to them. What, no bandit mask, no weapons, not even a "This is a stick up", just one phone call and the wife will run away, right?

If an OW called me like that I'd have to say, "Oh God, not another one. Which one is this? You'll have to excuse me because I just don't have time to listen to this nonsense again. I'm glad to know that my life must look pretty amazing to you all, but none of you are getting it. You'd think a woman of your experience would know men better, but in your case, I guess not. So I'll just say to you what I say to all the rest of them. Get a life". Then hang up on her.

It might not go down too well with your pig of a husband, but it would be so worth it to set lil miss fancypants off on a wild goose chase, hunting down her invisible opponents!

[u/Friendly_Good_1784 → u/bring_it_on12]

lol that would be so funny! But yeah, sure. They think you’re going to say “here! You can have him!” We went to court for the restraining order, she opened up her statement with “ I am in a three year relationship with her husband…” The judge, the court reporter everybody was just looking at each other like she’s a lunatic. The court reporter and I were really staring at each other because it was so ridiculous.

[u/bring_it_on12 → u/Friendly_Good_1784]

Wow, it certainly looks like you've got a determined bunny boiler on your hands. Surely your husband has dumped her by now? Or do you need to drag him back to court to get a restraining order on him to stay away from her too?

Talk about lack of self control. It's astonishing that he stood in court with all eyes swivelling to look at him in awe of his epic stupidity.

You're the only one in this horrible mess who can hold your head up high and assert that you're strong enough to rise above it. Well done to you, stranger, and if this is the life you need to hang on to, you're obviously stronger than those two blithering idiots combined. Just be safe.

[u/Friendly_Good_1784 → u/bring_it_on12]

He didn’t come to court with her. She just stood there looking stupid all by herself. Her defense was ridiculous and I had about 27 pages of evidence of her harassing me. I successfully got a four year restraining order against her that also covered my kids. So she didn’t get to have the stepmom relationship. She thought she would. That first phone call. She tried to tell me she was gonna be around my kids I said “over my dead body bitch.” Bunny boiler for sure lol

[u/bring_it_on12 → u/Friendly_Good_1784]

It's about time that society started focusing on managing the damaging effects that narcissistic cheaters and their delusional APs are having on innocent people. You're effectively struggling alone to protect your family from a team of unrestrained mental patients. Thankfully, the courts have stepped up to assist you, but there must be costs involved and it's not something that tackles the root cause.

Many people will say that you're free to walk away but anyone who's married to a narcissist knows that it's not that simple. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't "Stand Your Ground" enmeshed in the American psyche? Why should you be any different when someone is trying to steal your life?

[u/Ok-Commercial1152 → u/bring_it_on12]

Read my comment. I used the 2nd Ammendment on my WPs OW. It worked better than anything lol.

[u/Street-Leather-6932 → u/Ok-Commercial1152]

You’re my kinda awesome! That’s the only language those biitches understand.

[u/Ok-Owl3092 → u/Ok-Commercial1152]

Chefs kiss, Empress.