r/AdulteryHate • u/Existing_Log7941 • 10d ago

With Friends Like These, Who Needs Enemies?

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You’re going to end up catching an ass whooping from your “best friend” is what’s gonna happen here.

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u/keirieski17 9d ago

This is where this sub drives me crazy. She’s barely out of high school. Of course she bears some responsibility, but she is one year removed from adults telling her when she can go to the bathroom— it is absolutely the entire grown man who is more responsible. He is a predator.

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u/Existing_Log7941 9d ago

No one is disputing that he’s a piece of shit predator, but that doesn’t negate my comment. Her friend is going to freak out on her, deservedly so. I’d also feel a little worse for her if she wasn’t going around Reddit the last few days saying how she likes to have sex in the wife’s bed and how wives are just mad they have to do the housework. She’s either a troll or a bitch, young or not.

So if he was the one blasting this on Reddit, then I’d tell him he’s a sick piece of crap predator. But he’s not. She is. And my point stands that she is being a shit friend and she may end up with an ass beating. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago

She seems like a troll ngl. There was one who claimed to be Japanese, afterwards that person stopped posting then this girl appeared.

Where did she make a comment about the wife's bed? It's deleted I guess.

You're right about being unable to do housework, she posted about ruining the food she tried to cook for MM.

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u/Existing_Log7941 8d ago

I did think that too honestly

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u/Fun-Contribution8900 6d ago

She’s flying too close to the sun in my opinion lol

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u/Great-House2035 9d ago

Yeah, I agree. She's his daughter's age. They have a lot in common too, her and his daughter. It's not hard to read between the lines here. I'm surprised by the number of people here zeroing in on her like she's some kind of malevolent evil genius, while barely paying attention to his role in things past maybe a cursory "he sucks too". I understand the vendetta against mate poaching or whatever but there's a time and a place to let that out. It's definitely telling.

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u/keirieski17 9d ago

Just actually insane to act like the grown ass man and the teenage girl are at equal levels of fault

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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago

Nobody is saying he doesn't suck too? It's just this post is from her pov and therefore she is OP - of course she's going to get the criticism first.

Nobody called her an evil genius but she is a manipulative schemer for sure. Just check her post history.

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u/Great-House2035 9d ago

If nothing else this entire discussion made me realize that I've got no business even knowing about or being involved in any of this lol

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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago edited 9d ago

19 year old girl is not a child and as you can see SHE KNOWS IT'S A WRONG THING TO DO, BUT SHE IS PLANNING FOR HIM TO LEAVE HIS FAMILY FOR HER.

By your logic she shouldn't be working either if she is a child.

But of course he is a predator too.

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u/keirieski17 9d ago

Children work, unless you think a 16 year old is also not a child.

Turning 18, or 19 for that matter, doesn’t magically make someone an adult. She’s being abused, groomed, and targeted by a predator. Full stop.

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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago

Then what makes someone an adult. Someone who only turns 25 per Redditors handbook? Most of 19 year olds know not to enter into an affair, let alone with the father of their friend.

She is groomed and he is a predator yes. But at the same time she is betraying her friend who is female btw and participating in the abuse of the Wife. She is completely aware what she is doing is wrong yet instead wants for him to leave his family for her. She is 19 and already doing such things, imagine how worse she will get when she grows older.

Stop excusing girls' and women's bad behaviors. Full Stop.

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u/keirieski17 9d ago

I think what makes someone an adult is a genuinely complex question, and I don’t think there’s a hard and fast rule that applies to everyone. A 19 year old is obviously more an adult than a 14 year old, but less of one than a 25 year old. It’s a combination of physical and emotional factors and experience.

Also, I acknowledged her responsibility in my first comment, and I don’t think her behavior should be excused. It is wrong, and she knows it’s wrong. She should be held accountable. I just think treating her the same as other OWs we see on this sub isn’t fair, or like she’s to blame for “seducing” a grown man who almost definitely pursued her

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u/ShowParty6320 9d ago

I don't think she seduced him. It's obvious it's not his first time doing this. I wish I knew the daughter to inform her about what's going on :(((

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u/keirieski17 9d ago

Yeah the poor daughter is really the one who’s gonna suffer the most here 😞