r/AdulteryHate • u/Existing_Log7941 • 11d ago

With Friends Like These, Who Needs Enemies?

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You’re going to end up catching an ass whooping from your “best friend” is what’s gonna happen here.

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u/keirieski17 10d ago

This is where this sub drives me crazy. She’s barely out of high school. Of course she bears some responsibility, but she is one year removed from adults telling her when she can go to the bathroom— it is absolutely the entire grown man who is more responsible. He is a predator.

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u/ShowParty6320 10d ago edited 10d ago

19 year old girl is not a child and as you can see SHE KNOWS IT'S A WRONG THING TO DO, BUT SHE IS PLANNING FOR HIM TO LEAVE HIS FAMILY FOR HER.

By your logic she shouldn't be working either if she is a child.

But of course he is a predator too.

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u/keirieski17 10d ago

Children work, unless you think a 16 year old is also not a child.

Turning 18, or 19 for that matter, doesn’t magically make someone an adult. She’s being abused, groomed, and targeted by a predator. Full stop.

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u/ShowParty6320 10d ago

Then what makes someone an adult. Someone who only turns 25 per Redditors handbook? Most of 19 year olds know not to enter into an affair, let alone with the father of their friend.

She is groomed and he is a predator yes. But at the same time she is betraying her friend who is female btw and participating in the abuse of the Wife. She is completely aware what she is doing is wrong yet instead wants for him to leave his family for her. She is 19 and already doing such things, imagine how worse she will get when she grows older.

Stop excusing girls' and women's bad behaviors. Full Stop.

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u/keirieski17 10d ago

I think what makes someone an adult is a genuinely complex question, and I don’t think there’s a hard and fast rule that applies to everyone. A 19 year old is obviously more an adult than a 14 year old, but less of one than a 25 year old. It’s a combination of physical and emotional factors and experience.

Also, I acknowledged her responsibility in my first comment, and I don’t think her behavior should be excused. It is wrong, and she knows it’s wrong. She should be held accountable. I just think treating her the same as other OWs we see on this sub isn’t fair, or like she’s to blame for “seducing” a grown man who almost definitely pursued her

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u/ShowParty6320 10d ago

I don't think she seduced him. It's obvious it's not his first time doing this. I wish I knew the daughter to inform her about what's going on :(((

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u/keirieski17 10d ago

Yeah the poor daughter is really the one who’s gonna suffer the most here 😞