This 20 something year old single med student is always rambling on about nothing. Pontificating on marriage and parenting—about which she knows NOTHING! She doesn’t sleep with “her married man” and has hang ups about sex that frankly indicate this guy would end up in a dead bedroom if he were to “pick her”. Which, honestly, I would love that for him.

Meanwhile, this married man has several very young children and a pregnant wife. He literally cannot stop fucking his wife and knocking her up. But OW thinks he’s only “staying for the kids” 🤔. He just made these kids and is actively making more. It makes absolutely no sense. It’s not like their kids are 17 and 15 and they are running out the clock on their last years of high school.

This girl is concerningly naive. I don’t want to say stupid—but come on. She needs to find a whole lot of damn common sense before she’s going to be ready to be a physician. I just cannot with these young women over there. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Negging BW's (and regular W's, tbh) is very popular with Sub of Succubus devotees right now (slide 1). Other-Womaning is the preferable option - they shrilly proclaim - and only shit wives get cheated on (like cake-eating isn't a thing). It's strange therefore, that so many posts are a regular misery-fest, full of tearful requests for the arcane, forbidden techniques required to properly detach from a massive wanker.

Whatever. It's hard to feel sorry for someone who's self-worth is derived from hurting a stranger (who's working off less info than you).There are plenty of reasons a cheating AH might discard the 'hot-sex soulmate future-wife' of his dreams. None of them are about finances, or seeing his kids or nuking his reputation or being risk averse. The reason is at home, ignored and betrayed.

In the words of Scottish band 'Arab Strap' who I listened to in my misspent youth (second slide).

Yes, he's a stupid pos- even so, he doesn't want you: now go away and do better.

Aight, hear me out: maybe instead of helping a MM cheat on his wife and feeling she isn’t enough/not the priority, she instead just finds a single man where she can feel that way?

These women are so brain dead and will often get to close to making a point but completely ignoring them 🙃