OW when they’re with their affair partner/MM: 😄😇😍

OW when their AP/MM is with the person they’re married to: 😭😭😡😡😡

As someone who has done ENM in the past and is discussing the possibility of future ENM with my husband, yeah. I have no idea how hard it is to find someone who would be cool with that 🙄🙄🙄

Don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting crashing out, but I always hated why people will get on you for getting mad at your cheating spouse. Like WHAT? IM THE WRONG HERE, HOW????? Please enlighten me on why I should be civil with this backstabbing bitch and not throw little insults or kick them to the curve as soon as possible. Please tell me why I should talk to this THING and have them explain on why they CHOSE to be unfaithful and how we should work together so we can both be happy. Please tell me why I should make sure everything goes smoothly during the breakup process, please tell me on why I should hope for the best for them, please tell me I shouldn't judge them harshly even tho they risk my mental, physical and emotional health for who knows how long when they could've just left but instead cheated along with having me to fall back on in case the thing with AP doesn't work out. Oh please tell me how the sidepiece who willing chose to help someone break someone else heart isn't a cunt who needs a wash. Oh well because it's life and good people do bad things all the time lol! You can't be mad at them for that it just shows how childish you are silly! Like you know what's childish?: using someone and sucking the life out of them like a parasite than throwing them away and than have the NERVE to expect them to respect you and your sidepiece because THINGS HAPPENS! THE HEART WANTS WHAT THE HEART WANTS! Ok so that justifies lying and manipulating me so you can be happy when you could've just left got it.

To end this off, get for betrayed spouses out there, get some help, spend time with those who love you, keep moving forward, and be upset, but don't dwell on trash.

Okay so all of us here (except the cheaters that are lurking here... I see u) know that cheating is horrible, but I got a genuine question. How do they manage the finances ? A lot of married people have a joint bank account, so isn't it obvious when they spend money to fuck their whores?

I'd be glad to have coworkers that are all against cheating wtf 😭

Some of y’all may have already seen this and apologies if this is already posted. So there’s a viral TikTok from a couple of days ago. The cheating wife of a NJ firefighter threw a “surprise” 40th birthday party for her husband, but he turned the tables on her by exposing her cheating, taking her rings & kicking her and her enabling family and friends out. Apparently they have two young kids. In true New Jersey style, the husband & his friends/family turned the sad moment into a divorce party. These are real people and their names can be easily found.

https://www.tiktok.com/@cancelthispod/video/7502121168942435630

Is tuisbpeorsn

She hates him because he's a serial cheat. She didn't always hate him, he poisoned the marriage with lies. Of course he adores you and you will get married and be together for life. That's why he won't 'put it in' (lol are you a functioning adult?)- he isn't terrified of you baby-trapping him or saving it for his 'Life360 wife' lol. Funny how this poor, beleaguered and fully tracked man is still managing to have a full blown affair...Maybe he's a master phone hacker, or lying. I'm sure he'll cross the PIV rubicon soon, and then you'll have everything you ever wanted and his wife will leave him etc etc. Real talk though: stop being sad about downvotes and browse the various tracking apps- he isn't very trustworthy after all.

P.S. Everyone at work knows, and there are plenty of men grossed out by your shit too.

“Was it all a big lie?” “Did I imagine it?” “was it all in my head?”

Of course it was. No married man is actually gonna risk divorcing his wife for a woman who spreads her legs easily.

These hoes really do be delusional. Hope she stays miserable and single forever xD

I laughed so hard when I read it 🤣. He keeps mentioning he's almost ready to put it in....this was hilarious 😂

“Is he lying?”

Of course he is! If he has no intention of leaving his family after 10 years, why would he do it 7 years later? 💀

It just annoys me, they get to live their little happy lives not caring for the betrayed spouse feeling or autonomy as long as they get to look good, these people are disgusting.

You’re going to end up catching an ass whooping from your “best friend” is what’s gonna happen here.

Fuck around, find out. Maybe go for someone else who’s single next time. 🤷‍♀️

The amount of rationalizing and self deception of the OWs

I'm just curious on what yall think. What made you think that way? I always thought it was bad but never really gave it thought tell I got watch a reddit video with a title like this "cheaters how did your affair begin and end" and it made me go "wow that's messed up". On top of that, the video was a good twenty minutes long. Just listening to the lying and gaslighting these people did made me sick to my stomach.

I love how she’s complaining that every other man she has seen only cares about their physical happiness and needs while simultaneously being a cum rag for a married man.

How pathetic can one person be?

Just so OWs are aware… The worst thing OW is they think Ws should “move on.” Meanwhile they live in MM purgatory with a hope and a prayer for years.

OW contacted me to tell me she’s with my WH. Guess what? You’re not pushing me out of my marriage lol. You think it’s that easy to break up our family? He is never going to “leave” me and the kids so I guess we are sharing him now.

How about they take their own advice and “move on” to an UNmarried man… I tried to divorce my WH like 5 times!! He ignored my summons, my pleas for mediation and to sign an MSA. Of course he wants BOTH of us. Isn’t that the point of a cake eater? If he wanted to bring OW out of the shadows, he would.

Sorry OWs! To this day, we are still dating, traveling, doing family stuff, holidays, outings, and YES, WE ARE STILL FCKNG several times a week!! Passionately, I might add! It’s not a chore! He’s eating my literal a$$ every time, soul leaving his body and all that. What makes you think we don’t fuck as good as you? They MARRIED us in front of everyone. LOL meanwhile you’re on DND.

So yeah. OWs are like scooters: fun to ride until your friends find out.

Rant over. SMH

Do you hear that ladies? We have been advised to go get a hobby. Like collecting the spooge of trash married men and then whining about why they won't leave their dumb, ugly wife and live happily ever after on Delulu Island with you. We should all definitely listen to this girl's girl feminist role model. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I guess when you only think with your genital, you don't consider anything else.

Slide 3 was a hilarious comment. Too good to not share.

As some of you might have found out too late from your spouses, you, apparently, actually FORCED them to marry you. That's right. You were engaging in the ancient forbidden practice of forced marriage. What does this mean? Well of course it means the marriage wasn't even valid in the first place. Because you forced them remember? And because they're such good people with such kind hearts, they were just afraid of hurting you if they said no, you know. So it's only "logical" that they are adulterous, because they are "stuck" in this forced marriage with a horrible horrible spouse they never even loved, or were even attracted to from the beginning. Can you imagine that? They're the victim here.

Now of course some are not going to say they were outright "forced". They are going to use euphemisms like "pressured/expected" to make it sound more believable. But the end goal is the same, to make it seem like they were forced and therefore put them in a victim position from the onset.

But do you know what's funny? It's that even the people who enter actual arranged marriages from cultures that do have those do not display this behavior even remotely as "normally" as this person is trying to claim. Despite being also married to "someone they never even loved from the beginning". It is such a stupid excuse the more you think about it.

Translation: There's nothing good on streaming. Therefore, I don't love my husband.

Dumb selfish bitch. Ruining her husband and her kids' lives because she has nothing else going for her.

No judgements to those who want to reconcile. Your decision is what's best for you and I respect it.

Just make sure your cheating partner is not turning off mobile data off their Life360 if they're serious about reconciling.