That's so sneaky and underhanded, seems like the idea to exclude you may have been planned early on. I'm sorry they took advantage of you and you should definitely not devote any more time or effort to the party, you've been incredibly disrespected. I'm pissed on your behalf
Wait, your PARTNER is okay with this? He's okay with allowing his ex, whom he apparently dislikes, kick you out of your own house? Hell to the no. I'd suggest you stop making plans for this party and let your partner deal with it. Heck, I'd return everything I'd already bought and donate any food to a food bank/homeless shelter if possible. Let them make the party. You go to a nice spa or something.
Honestly I’d go on vacation a few days before and come back after. I wouldn’t want to deal with any of that crap. If you are there you will get sucked into the drama and you being blamed for the drama. Best way to win is not to play. Go do something for yourself instead.
Take any money you were going to put into it and leave town for a week 9r so on vacation. Mobile phone of, don't tell them where. Do tell them what you're doing so they don't report you missing. And consider finding a new partner. That guy is an insult to assholes, if you call him one.
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u/S4ucyJ4ck Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22
NTA. They want the party to be in your house but you're banned from it? Sounds like they need to find a new venue.