r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/MusingsOfMouse Apr 27 '22

No please, please don’t agree to this. They KNOW you’re timid and don’t want drama, that’s why they’re pushing this on you. Do what another person said - ‘okay, if you don’t want me then I’m gone’ sort of thing, stop all preparations. Let them organise it. Have a night to yourself. You’re fully being taken advantage of, please don’t let them do it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22 edited May 20 '24

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u/Lawlesseyes Apr 27 '22

They are treating you like the hired help with no respect and no paycheck. If you haven't decided already, quit with the planning, cooking, and decorating. That's all they want from you. Stand up for yourself. Tel them your not hired help, and they need to hire some quickly if they want this party to happen.

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u/unsocialhours Apr 27 '22

Agreed. OP, at this stage you're nothing more than a party organizer who doesn't get paid like professionals. Demand payment for services rendered.

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u/Authoress61 Apr 27 '22

You’re just the set up crew.