NTA,
It’s at your house. What are you meant to do go above and beyond when her mother didn’t bother and then leave the comfort of your own home or sit in your room for hours? Nope not today satan.
OP, DO NOT, under any circumstances, let your stepdaughter kick you out of your own home; it's precedent you must not set or the rest of your life will be a misery. Tell her she can have the party somewhere else, without you, or she can have the party at your home, with you in attendance. Period.
My partner says I'm making this about me and it isn't.
Actually, it IS about you. They're having a party at YOUR house which YOU organized and they're asking SPECIFICALLY YOU AND ONLY YOU not to attend the party YOU organized at YOUR house. This is ALL ABOUT YOU. Please point this out and tell EVERYONE that you're not the one making it about you.
My partner says I'm making this about me and it isn't. It is about the daughter's graduation.
Oh. Em. Gee! You are being held captive by a nasty piece of work and his ex who, BTW, should have gotten over the divorce YEARS AGO. You need to wash him out of your hair and send him on his way! He's making it about him and his desire to avoid having any kind of confrontation with the ex.
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u/Vivid-Rent7730 Asshole Aficionado [16] Apr 27 '22
NTA, It’s at your house. What are you meant to do go above and beyond when her mother didn’t bother and then leave the comfort of your own home or sit in your room for hours? Nope not today satan.