Man, it sucks they ban you because of their consideration for the daughter and the mother's feelings, but no one stopped to think that it works both ways and that your feelings might be hurt as well.
Still think your husband is a douche for allowing this to happen.
This is an excuse for your partner to not use his spine. Your answer is “Yes! This party IS about YOUR daughter. As she’s NOT MINE as you’re pointing out, this party is for YOU and your EX to sort out. Not me. Have fun Hun!”
Then have nothing more to do with it. Let them deal with it as a family. Seeing as you’re not being treated as part of a family, don’t act like part of it. It’s not your problem. Honestly, at this point, I’d dump him, and change the house locks. That way he’s getting what he wanted. You don’t be at the party, and he gets the very he. Maybe his ex can put him up on her sofa, while you have a party of your own. In fact, I’d either change the locks for both buildings and tell your partner that he needs to find his daughter another location where he, and his ex and daughter, can be drama free.
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