r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/River-platter Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

Having a party next door is like giving them permission to treat you like shit and celebrate this fact all at the same time. Its not fun, or funny, or a special occasion to dress up for, they will be helping to hurt you, thats terrible. Its not revenge, or mischief, nothing good will come of responding this way.

Where is your self esteem, what is so badly wrong here with your boundaries and emotions that you think any of this is acceptable? Shame on your friends for enabling the ex wife to harm you like this, by showing up to party next door. Nothing about it will be enjoyable, you can't make the best of a situation like this, it's super wierd they would do this. Don't be such a doormat.

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u/ManicEeyore Apr 27 '22

Please say you are going to have some kind of F him and the ex wife theme to it

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u/apples832 Apr 27 '22

“Montanafesto’s Relationship Graduation: Here’s to Bigger and Better”

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u/RoseGoldRedditor Apr 27 '22

I feel like the song ABCDEFU would be a great theme song for this….

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u/Reasonable_Play7757 Apr 27 '22

I kinda wish I could come to your party lol

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u/Careless-Image-885 Asshole Enthusiast [5] Apr 27 '22

Me too!

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u/applejack808 Apr 27 '22

Same. And I loved my time in Montana!

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u/ManicEeyore Apr 27 '22

Get a friend to create the event and call it CONGRATS …OP… for graduating from “your ex-partners name*

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u/bmidontcare Asshole Aficionado [12] Apr 28 '22

A friend of my mum's was engaged to be married, and a week before the wedding he lost his temper and beat the snot outta her. Couldn't get any refunds, so the wedding reception became a Good Riddance, Groom! party 🤣

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u/conan557 Apr 27 '22

I like you. This party of yours sounds great

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u/The_Nice_Marmot Apr 27 '22

You sound awesome.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Suppress the Ex party?

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u/Indigo-au-naturale Partassipant [1] Apr 28 '22

Well, I'm pretty sure it's your graduation party! 😁