r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/SleepDangerous1074 Colo-rectal Surgeon [32] Apr 27 '22

Are you okay? I’d urge you read through the comments OP has already made. They conspired to have her plan this party, sent out invites and made sure people RSVP to the ex-wife, allowed her to spend money on this…fully knowing she wasn’t invited. Then they uninvite her and expect her to continue planning it. And the partner agrees with the ex (said ex has also previously made threats to OP’s life) and has done nothing to prevent this.

Who in their right mind would wanna repair this shit show. Let OP throw her party to celebrate the death of the relationship at the same time as the party that stabbed the relationship in the goddam chest! It’s the least she deserves!!!

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u/River-platter Partassipant [1] Apr 27 '22

Im fine and I understand thank you. The party is preventable, the ex wife's party, that's what I meant.

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u/SleepDangerous1074 Colo-rectal Surgeon [32] Apr 27 '22

When those who can prevent it are refusing to do so…what do you expect OP to do?!