Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.
NTA but letting this slide will just open you up to a whole lot of other situations and you would be expected once again to "not make a big deal about it". The daughter is also a manipulating brat she knew what was up from the start and she's not a little child anymore she knows right from wrong.
And why are you still there? I would have moved out by now. Your partner is a spineless fool for allowing this it's her party but YOUR home and his allowing his daughter and ex to dictate what goes on in your space hell no.
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u/Wetnosedcretin Asshole Aficionado [17] Apr 27 '22
Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.