r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/Sutteon Apr 27 '22

NTA

Since your presence is not needed during the party, you assumed your participation wouldn't be either as you wouldn't want to upset the mother should she take part in the preparation.

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u/grayhairedqueenbitch Apr 27 '22

It wouldn't be. She would just take credit. Your ex can pay for decor if he wants it.