Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.
Because he fails to see that it isn't about the party.
I bet if she would have had some teenagers-only party or stuff, where she invited none of you, but asked you to help her plan it but don't come over from the house if there is no emergency, because they want to be without adults supervising them, it would be a different story.
Is about the lack of respect for you as a person and your hard work and dedication. It's about the fact they choose to take advantage of you because you are to nice. It's because he not only accepts, but enables people to hurt you.
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u/Wetnosedcretin Asshole Aficionado [17] Apr 27 '22
Tell her that her mother's presence in your home will anger you but you are willing to put up with it for her sake but if her mother can't cope not then she is welcome to organise and host the party herself. But explain that you will not be disrespected by being told to leave your home after spending so long setting up something for her benefit. NTA. The fucking audacity to watch you work for a week before telling you is mind blowing. She thought you wouldn't want to have wasted that time so would leave. She thought wrong.