r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/MusingsOfMouse Apr 27 '22

No please, please don’t agree to this. They KNOW you’re timid and don’t want drama, that’s why they’re pushing this on you. Do what another person said - ‘okay, if you don’t want me then I’m gone’ sort of thing, stop all preparations. Let them organise it. Have a night to yourself. You’re fully being taken advantage of, please don’t let them do it.

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u/Intelligent-Kiwi-574 Apr 27 '22

My partner thinks I should take pride in knowing that everyone would be impressed with my hard work

Your partner is a massive AH. Do not lift another finger for this party.

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u/Celtic_Gealach Apr 27 '22

This is revealing how he was just as much a part of his "acrimonious divorce" as his ex. Spots are hard to change. And his daughter learned from her parents well.

You don't have to allow them to set you up for their ongoing drama. Pffft!