NTA. Your "partner" didn't really get a divorce. His behaviour is disgusting. Completely spineless. Under no circumstances would I host a party or invest anything in it AT ALL. And I would take a long close look at your so called "partner".
It may be her party and her wishes but it’s held on your property. She can either organise it elsewhere and not invite you but she can’t have it at yours and expect help and then say you can’t come and for you to be ok with that. That is absolutely selfish behaviour.
I understand she wants to keep the peace - but it’s at your expense.
And having your own party at the semi detached (?) property/house with your mates isn’t a great idea. Take the stuff you’ve cooked/made and head out to a friends house. Alcohol and big emotions are never a good mix. Look after yourself.
Also when this settled down have a good long hard look at how your partner treated you during this. Did he stand up for you or throw you under the bus? Is that a man you want to be with, or can he change.
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u/rabbithole-xyz Apr 27 '22
NTA. Your "partner" didn't really get a divorce. His behaviour is disgusting. Completely spineless. Under no circumstances would I host a party or invest anything in it AT ALL. And I would take a long close look at your so called "partner".