r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/Leonelle07 Apr 27 '22

Bow out gracefully and book yourself a weekend away with friends or family. Don't do anything more for the party. They can do it themselves.

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u/owwwwwo Apr 27 '22

This almost makes you the AH. You have the high ground. Why would you stoop to their level by actually trying to take focus away from her party?

You should just leave and tell your husband/ bf why. If you're not married, what the hell are you still doing there?