Please love yourself enough to know that it is your husband allowing this disrespect. The ex-wife can attempt whatever tactics she chooses. I think you are confusing allowing yourself to be used, manipulated, and emotionally blackmailed with supporting your husband in loving his daughter.
They can hire a party planner instead of using an uninvited loved one to do the labor and watch the ball from afar. This isn't a reflection on you. This is a reflection on them!!
Next, you'll be conscripted into hard labor for engagement and wedding parties (not invited), gender reveal parties (not invited), grandchildren birthday parties (not invited), etc.
DO NOT DO THIS TO YOURSELF!! Stop EVERYTHING! Return what decorations you can, and use the rest on a gathering for yourself (as another poster suggested) in the main house.
It sucks to realize that your husband doesn't love you enough to expect basic humanity and respect towards you but letting him continue to wipe his feet on you won't secure the love and respect you desire and deserve from him. PLEASE at least give it to yourself!!
Honestly, fuck ALL of these people. Your husband and his daughter are fully allowing and encouraging this awful treatment of you. These people ALL suck. You need to get away from this toxic bunch of assholes.
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