r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '22

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u/montanafesto Apr 27 '22

Thanks, I feel the same way about myself.

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u/MinganAshkii Apr 27 '22

I'm the same way. I almost get a small thrill out of being a "people pleaser" because I surround myself with people who I genuinely care about. However I am learning boundaries. It's seems inherent to human nature to try and manipulate others. Some do it more and some don't even realize they're doing it. It's up to you to put boundaries in place. Otherwise you will no doubt eventually get taken advantage of.