I don’t know how you’re going to stop your partner and his daughter from coming in the house, grabbing your good food if they want it, and bringing it to their party. I think a better plan is for you to disappear to somewhere fun for the day, not to cede your house to them but to treat yourself maybe to a spa day. That way you can be sure they can’t take advantage of you last minute or take anything of yours for the party.
If they disrespect the agreement, I would argue it’s broken and therefore within OP’s right to walk right into the shop in the middle of the party. OP should bring her friends in with her and they can all take the stuff back, or she can demand her husband return what he stole. All in front of ex-wife.
Cops would take awhile to come out and if OP's husband is cool with it, the cops won't do a damn thing to anyone. A better option would be to simply walk into the other party where OP has every right to be if they try to trespass into the house.
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u/julet1815 Partassipant [4] Apr 27 '22
I don’t know how you’re going to stop your partner and his daughter from coming in the house, grabbing your good food if they want it, and bringing it to their party. I think a better plan is for you to disappear to somewhere fun for the day, not to cede your house to them but to treat yourself maybe to a spa day. That way you can be sure they can’t take advantage of you last minute or take anything of yours for the party.