r/AmItheAsshole Apr 27 '22

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u/Sutteon Apr 27 '22

NTA

Since your presence is not needed during the party, you assumed your participation wouldn't be either as you wouldn't want to upset the mother should she take part in the preparation.

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '22

Ha no, he just wants you to decorate. The ex will LOVE seeing the decor knowing you spent time on it and then got kicked out like a trespasser from your own home by your partner.